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	<pubDate>Thu, 29 Jul 2010 20:02:18 +0000</pubDate>
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		<title>Im A Christian Again</title>
		<link>http://www.ex-christian.net/index.php?/topic/40014-im-a-christian-again/</link>
		<description><![CDATA[Well I decided to leave the church and God when I first joined this site about a year ago or so. I wanted to be free from everything, I wanted to think of myself, I wanted to live the way I saw it fit. Well I did. I really didnt go off the rails or anything, but I stopped going to church for a while, stopped reading the Word and just did what I wanted. I used bad words, I saw bad movies, I said what I wanted and did not aplogize. It wasa all good in the beginning. I was determined to "break-free." But after a while I felt empty, I felt like my life had no meaning, and I longed for God again. I gave it a long time. I tried to be in a relationship, I tried to focus on my studies, I tried to go out and socialize and it all didnt do anything for me. I was wondering, all over the place. I wasted my time and resources. I was in want of something deeper, and I felt weary from searching all the day. <br />
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God never let me go. Through it all, He has been here just waiting for me to come back. I started goin to church again, reading the Word again, and spending quality time with Him. It was what I needed. I never felt better. My life is not perfect but I am starting to get happy again. I dont understand why I had to go through that, but I did. I was so determined to leave God, but He didnt let me.]]></description>
		<pubDate>Thu, 29 Jul 2010 20:02:18 +0000</pubDate>
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		<title>Dating Methods</title>
		<link>http://www.ex-christian.net/index.php?/topic/40106-dating-methods/</link>
		<description><![CDATA[I was reading an article by a young earth creationist which made the seemingly common statement "Carbon dating has been shown not to work and therefore science can't accurately date anything prior to the Biblical 6000 years".  This should make the majority of readers groan at the ignorance shown (or maybe you are so used to it now that it has long since stopped amazing you?), but I thought I'd have a search and try to find just how many dating techniques there are that show the world is older than 6000 years.<br />
Firstly theres the isotopes (of which carbon is the most famous), I quickly found 7 different ones in common use and a note saying there was over 40 that had been used in the past.  Theres stratography (knowing the speed of which layers of rock are formed), tree ring counts, coral reef growth rates, thermoluminescence (pottery heated to show its elements and light refraction), Termo-remanent maganism (dating pottery based on its magnetism), sedimentry layers, erosion speeds, plate tectonic speeds, astronomical dating, stalactite growth rates and ice cores.  Thats a dozen different methods and I didn't have to dig very far to find those.<br />
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I even found this on a Christian old earth site: "Vast amounts of data overwhelmingly favor an old Earth. Several hundred laboratories around the world are active in radiometric dating. Their results consistently agree with an old Earth. Over a thousand papers on radiometric dating were published in scientifically recognized journals in the last year, and hundreds of thousands of dates have been published in the last 50 years. Essentially all of these strongly favor an old Earth. "<br />
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The trick is I didn't have to spend days researching.  I just wanted to prove to myself how easy it would be to find the answer which some Christians seem incapable of understanding.  Google searches on any combination of the terms got dozens of hits.  It really is just a case of "can't be bothered", which is annoying enough that someone would willingly remain ignorant, but to then make statements on a subject that you obviously haven't done even the most basic research on is stunning in its stupidity.]]></description>
		<pubDate>Thu, 29 Jul 2010 18:56:29 +0000</pubDate>
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		<title>Most Awkward Dentist Visit Ever</title>
		<link>http://www.ex-christian.net/index.php?/topic/40069-most-awkward-dentist-visit-ever/</link>
		<description><![CDATA[Hi, I lurk occasionally but haven't posted before, but I just have to get this story off my chest...<br />
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So I was at the dentist getting my teeth cleaned and I got a super chatty dental hygienist. At first it was fine just talking about my new job and wedding I'm planning then she asked if my parents like my fiance and I said they like him ok but she caught the hesitation in my voice. I'm not a good liar or storyteller so I couldn't hide the truth very well that my parents wish he was "a nice Christian boy" instead of the atheist that he is. She pressed me and I admitted that cuz I didn't know what to say really...<br />
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Then she had to ask questions about how I came to not believe and where did I think people came from and what is the purpose of life... I mean really? I'm trapped there trying to get my teeth cleaned and I don't feel like sharing my personal thoughts about the meaning of life and religion with a stranger. Eventually she got the hint that it was an uncomfortable topic and talked about something else. However I couldn't escape her recommendation to read The Case for Christ... hmmm no thx. <br />
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I'm not really mad, she seemed pretty nice and didn't seem judgmental but I'm just irked.]]></description>
		<pubDate>Thu, 29 Jul 2010 18:26:09 +0000</pubDate>
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		<title>Whats Your Most Hated Quote From The Bible</title>
		<link>http://www.ex-christian.net/index.php?/topic/39842-whats-your-most-hated-quote-from-the-bible/</link>
		<description><![CDATA[I'm sure this forum has been made before but something is really bugging me. Now my mom knows the bible back to back, but she usually repeats the same quotes as many other christians do. This one she just said to me a minute ago and I like want to slap her when she says it, I unfortunately can't remember exactly how it goes but whatever its something like "faith is the substance of things.....something not seen but hope for" LOL sorry I totally butchered it. OH and I hate this one too "two or more agreeing on any one thing and it shall be done" AND my favorite "confession is possession" ill tell her like oh mom i think im coming down with a cold and shell be like "CONFESSION IS POSSESSION IN THE NAME'AH JEZUS I REBUKE SAYTAN AWAY FROM YEW"..thanks mom. Hating the whole bible altogether is not an answer im looking for particular quotes!]]></description>
		<pubDate>Thu, 29 Jul 2010 18:12:44 +0000</pubDate>
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		<title>Sick Of Mysogyny</title>
		<link>http://www.ex-christian.net/index.php?/topic/40102-sick-of-mysogyny/</link>
		<description><![CDATA[I found this article: <a href='http://standpointmag.co.uk/node/2041/full' class='bbc_url' title='External link' rel='nofollow'>http://standpointmag.co.uk/node/2041/full</a> <br />
It has a lot of good points. More impoverished women especially need to stand up for their rights. I live w/ a new couple who often exemplify everything lacking in society's view of women, and it is really opening my eyes. I told the guy that I will not allow him to treat her like that in my home (he isn't abusive, but he is overbearing and treats her like property). Not to get all political on you guys, but damn it, this has gone far enough!]]></description>
		<pubDate>Thu, 29 Jul 2010 18:10:50 +0000</pubDate>
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		<title><![CDATA[Arg!  We're Surrounded By Morons!]]></title>
		<link>http://www.ex-christian.net/index.php?/topic/39921-arg-were-surrounded-by-morons/</link>
		<description><![CDATA[As you know, I've only recently become atheist but my faith has been going down the toilet for some time.  Now that I'm finally doing the research and seeing Christianity for what it really is, I want to share this knowledge.  It's so obvious to me...surely it will become obvious to others right? WRONG<br />
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Why are people so blind?!?  It's an embarrassment to our species.<br />
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How do you adapt to the idea of being married to someone you think is an idiot?  I've always had a great marriage but I don't know how he can believe in a 2,000 year old zombie!<br />
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I know I sound like a pompous jerk know-it-all...and perhaps I am.  I still don't know how to retain respect for my loved ones when I think they are seriously delusional. <img src='http://www.ex-christian.net/public/style_emoticons/default/vent.gif' class='bbc_emoticon' alt=':vent:' />]]></description>
		<pubDate>Thu, 29 Jul 2010 16:23:15 +0000</pubDate>
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		<title>From My Diary To You</title>
		<link>http://www.ex-christian.net/index.php?/topic/40116-from-my-diary-to-you/</link>
		<description><![CDATA[This is what I've wanted to say since I left religion. I wrote it in my diary while I was boiling with anger. It's addressed to the christians I knew until after college.<br />
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<strong class='bbc'>Why aren't you a Christian anymore?</strong><br />
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I don't believe it. I did what I was told to do as a Christian. I read the Bible, prayed every day and abstained from "worldly" things, while you and your church buddies did whatever you wanted to do, even to the point of talking about me behind my back and making underhanded comments about how you wanted me out of your clique. Now, if you could do all that and still go to heaven because you're supposedly covered by Jesus' blood, then what's wrong with me doing my own thing?<br />
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<strong class='bbc'>Look, don't let the hypocrites determine your destiny.</strong><br />
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That makes absolutely no sense. I'm not letting hypocrites determine my destiny. I saw major inconsistencies between what was preached/taught and what the church actually did. I can't deny what I experienced. If christianity were true, then those inconsistencies would not exist.<br />
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<strong class='bbc'>But we're human!</strong><br />
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Yes we are! Yes you are! So live with that instead of claiming to be more than human. Don't lie to yourself.<br />
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<strong class='bbc'>Our righteousness is as filthy rags. It's not about our behavior, but about what we believe. What matters most is that you believe in Jesus.</strong><br />
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Oh, so I can hurt as many people as I want, just as you did, but as long as I believe in Jesus, I'm all right? Do you not realise how inhumane that is? I have met more loving and caring non-christians who helped me when I was sick and befriended me without judgment. This reality is why I am not a christian.]]></description>
		<pubDate>Thu, 29 Jul 2010 16:13:19 +0000</pubDate>
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		<title>Christians: Put Up Or Shut Up!</title>
		<link>http://www.ex-christian.net/index.php?/topic/19290-christians-put-up-or-shut-up/</link>
		<description><![CDATA[<span class='bbc_center'></span><br />
I'm tired.  I'm tired of all the yapping and yakking, back and forth, he said, she said, bullshit of Evangelical, Liberal and Fundamentalist Christians.  I'm tired of all the baseless assertions, suppositions and mind bending rationalizations.  I'm tired of arguing against YOUR ridiculous doctrines that donâ€˜t even merit a retarded gopherâ€™s consideration.<br />
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But most of all, I'm tired of all the lame Christian excuses.  You promise "answers" and then proffer up "I don't know."  You claim that your God can do anything, but when pressed for a demonstration you retreat behind ridiculous excuses.  I'm drowning under an embarrassing Christian tsunami of "I don't know"s and â€œGodâ€˜s ways are not our wayâ€s.  <br />
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So here it is, real simple: PUT UP or fucking SHUT UP!<br />
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Robert G. Ingersoll, in a more civil tone, once said...<br />
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<p class='citation'>Quote</p><div class="blockquote"><div class='quote'>â€œThe church wishes us to believe. Let the church, or one of its intellectual saints, perform a miracle, and we will believe. We are told that nature has a superior. Let this superior, for one single instant, control nature, and we will admit the truth of your assertions."<br />
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"We have heard talk enough. We have listened to all the drowsy, idealess, vapid sermons that we wish to hear. We have read your Bible and the works of your best minds. We have heard your prayers, your solemn groans and your reverential â€˜amens.â€™ All these amount to less than nothing. We want one fact. We beg at the doors of your churches for just one little fact. We pass our hats along your pews and under your pulpits and implore you for just one fact. We know all about your moldy wonders and your stale miracles. We want a 'this year's fact'. We ask only one. Give us one fact for charity. Your miracles are too ancient. The witnesses have been dead for nearly two thousand years. Their reputation for 'truth and veracity' in the neighborhood where they resided is wholly unknown to us. Give us a new miracle, and substantiate it by witnesses who still have the cheerful habit of living this world. Do not send us to Jericho to hear the winding horns, nor put us in the fire with Shadrach, Meshech and Abednego. Do not compel us to navigate the sea with Captain Jonah, nor dine with Mr. Ezekiel. There is no sort of use in sending us foxhunting with Samson. We have positively lost all interest in that little speech so eloquently delivered by Balaam's inspired donkey. It is worse than useless to show us fishes with money in their mouths, and call our attention to vast multitudes stuffing themselves with five crackers and two sardines. We demand a new miracle, and we demand it now. Let the church furnish at least one, or forever hold her peace.".........."The Gods" 1872</div></div><br />
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I donâ€™t argue or debate religion anymore.  The rest of you can do so if you like, but I wonâ€™t be joining you.  I wonâ€™t argue or discuss god/Jesus for the exact same reason I wonâ€™t argue or discuss Santa/Frosty the Snowman.  Self-evident, puerile tripe needs no intelligent refutation.  Itâ€™s a pointless and silly endeavor to me.  Besides, humoring idiots only serves to encourage them to keep babbling.  I prefer to lambaste, lampoon, laugh and walk away.<br />
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Iâ€™m not interested in hearing/reading your mindless â€œreasonsâ€ for wishful thinking (a.k.a. â€œBeliefâ€).  Your childish insistence that â€œsomethingâ€ must have happened, because <em class='bbc'>you</em> say so and <em class='bbc'>you</em> â€œbelieveâ€ it, will fall on deaf ears and I will call you an idiot.<br />
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Talk is cheap.  I donâ€™t want to hear anymore tired excuses for why your God apparently canâ€™t or wonâ€™t perform on command today as he did so effortlessly yesterday.  What happened?  He run out of â€œJesus Juiceâ€ or something?  Used up his quota resurrecting himself and converting Paul?  Does God need some Viagraâ„¢?  Or is God preserving his limited resources for when the time comes to fuck us over during the dreaded Apocalypse?  What fucking gives here?!? <br />
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So here is what you Christians can do to prove to me that Iâ€™m wrong (to shut ME up) -- show me something -- an answered prayer, an amputated limb re-grown, a mountain moving, bona fide, honest-to-fucking-God MIRACLE that no one can deny! -- or forever hold your peace, because I'm tired of your incessant delusional buzzing around my ears.  2,000-plus years of this overgrown death cult is more than enough.<br />
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Put up (provide verifiable evidence) or shut up (keep your retarded â€œbeliefsâ€ to yourself and leave the rest of us alone).<br />
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Thatâ€™s the deal.  All things considered I think Iâ€™m being more than reasonable.  You Christians are the ones writing checks your butts canâ€™t cash.  After all, â€œOutrageous claims demand outrageous proofs.â€<br />
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The ball is in your court, you delusional nitwits.<br />
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~ Checkmate (back by popular demand)]]></description>
		<pubDate>Thu, 29 Jul 2010 15:21:19 +0000</pubDate>
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		<title>Question For Christians About Biblical Inerrancy</title>
		<link>http://www.ex-christian.net/index.php?/topic/25632-question-for-christians-about-biblical-inerrancy/</link>
		<description>I have just one question for Christians to answer.  Why must the bible be the 100% literally true and perfect, inerrant word of god for the bible to have any value to it?</description>
		<pubDate>Thu, 29 Jul 2010 15:05:50 +0000</pubDate>
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		<title>A Question For Eemaan About An Islamic Website.</title>
		<link>http://www.ex-christian.net/index.php?/topic/40115-a-question-for-eemaan-about-an-islamic-website/</link>
		<description><![CDATA[Hi Eemaan!<br />
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Would you be so kind as to take a look at this site...<br />
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<a href='http://sites.google.com/site/islamidawa/home' class='bbc_url' title='External link' rel='nofollow'>http://sites.google.com/site/islamidawa/home</a><br />
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...and help me out with a few questions please?<br />
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1. Does the word, "Islamidawa" refer to this... <a href='http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Da%27wa' class='bbc_url' title='External link' rel='nofollow'>http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Da%27wa</a> ...kind of 'invitation'?<br />
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2. Is this relevant too?  <a href='http://www.oxfordislamicstudies.com/article/opr/t125/e511' class='bbc_url' title='External link' rel='nofollow'>http://www.oxfordislamicstudies.com/article/opr/t125/e511</a><br />
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3. Is it permitted for Muslims to use scientific evidence to promote their beliefs?<br />
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Thanks,<br />
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BAA.]]></description>
		<pubDate>Thu, 29 Jul 2010 14:55:00 +0000</pubDate>
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