Christy

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About Christy

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    In the process of breaking away from Christianity. Still in the closet so to speak, but arming myself with knowledge for my grand exit.

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  • Still have any Gods? If so, who or what?
    nope

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  1. What the Fuck is this?

    What is this?
  2. This is the funniest thing to me right now😼...
  3. Evolution does nothing to help my case. My parents, and my old pastors, believe in evolution. They do not understand it all but they can not deny it is true. They claim that the Bible provides room for it. They say that god forming Adam from dirt is just a short quick way of saying that people evolved. God is the one that enacted the Big Bang, humans evolved from what formed the earth and God breathing into Adams nostrils was the point God saw the evolution from ape to human as "complete" to his liking and gave him his soul but the actual creature of Adam was already living. So...🤷🏻‍♀️ So once I come out to my parents as a nonbeliever, science doesn't really help me.. I will have to rely only on psychology of religion and discrepancies of text I guess.
  4. Thanks for sharing. I would like to continue to follow this. @LogicalFallacy so true! I never thought of it that way but yes I could see how they could be an ally. Too bad the constitution doesn't also protect the absence of religion. As you pointed out, it becomes more difficult to argue our side.
  5. Idk where to post this...

    If there was ever a person who would never give up their religion, it is my mother. She believes it with every inch of her. She said while my grandmother was dying she laid on her bed, lifted her hands and said "glory,glory". That sealed the deal for my mom. She'll never turn her back on Christianity.
  6. Idk where to post this...

    That sounds harsh but my mother is the sweetest most giving person I know. She's only become radical the past few years. As her and my step fathers health has decreased their faith has increased. She talks to me like I'm just another believer. It would depress her if she thought I was on the path to hell. I feel like I'd rather just refrain from breaking her heart and let her live thinking like I'm a Christian.
  7. Idk where to post this...

    Yeah I'm feeling like I might just keep this secret until she dies.
  8. Just sat on the phone with my mother for an hour listening to how some shit in the sky was going to happen over Israel tomorrow and the sun will go black for 3 hours and how hurricane Maria (aka Mary) and hurricane Jose (aka Joseph) were going to "dance"? (IDFK) And something about ten stars and planets in a constellation. AND I've heard all these signs are being fulfilled and on and on and I just want to scream "Jesus Christ"(and not in the good way). Now she's sent me a video explaining all of it. I just went along with it and spit out whatever verses I could think of to coincide with what she talked about as if I still believe it all. If you are still in the closet as a non-believer, what do you do when your loved ones start talking about all of this? I'm so ready for these dates to pass so I can at least have a break before the next round of end time coincidences start popping up. It's stressing me out!
  9. State of flux

    @Mothernature how long has your husband been like this? I'm guessing at one point he wasn't? What triggered him to jump over the edge into obsession? I'm so sorry. Do you have and non-believing family members or at least any unobsessed ones who could come to your aid should things get bad? The thing about Christianity is that when obsessed believers do things in the name of religion they loose sight of what is right and wrong in reality. Please be careful. My heart is with you.
  10. Adult Cartoons

    Anyone else watch Rick and Morty?
  11. Blog posts from a pastor

    So, I've only been a member of this website for a small amount of time..however, throughout my busy days, I have managed to read several stories/testimonies of this sites members. You get on here and want to preach like you love and want to "save us". In all actuality, you don't care enough to read anything that anyone has actually posted on here. You are only posting all this crap to make yourself feel better and because it's what you've been told to do. "Oh no! convert! Convert! CONVERT!!" Dude you don't really care about any of us. If you did then you'd read our stories and know that many of us have already read and studied all of that scripture. We've read the Bible with our yearning hearts until our eyes were ready to bleed. We aren't ignorant about the stories in the Bible. If anything, we are more knowledgeable that many current Christians because we wanted to believe and we gave that religion our all and it did nothing for us in return. We devoted ourselves to it and your God did nothing in return. So don't get on here acting like you give a shit. If you really want to show you care then how about you come off your high horse, read some of the content on this site and come back with answers to the questions/problems that made us abandon Christianity in the first place. And when you do post again, come at me with something other than the Bible and a "be more dedicated" line. I know that damn book front to back and I dedicated every day of my life up to this point to "God".
  12. I need help

    @J_Julie Check out this website: http://leading-learners.org/student-news/teen-help-resources-and-hotlines/ there are many phone numbers on that site with professionals who can help you in your situation. Please don't kill yourself. Life is hard sometimes and as a teenager it can feel like you are drowning and there is no way out. But I promise that there is. There is always a way out of your darkest situations and feelings. Please click that link and call any one of those hotlines. They are all 24/7 and can provide you with immediate help and counseling.
  13. So much guilt...

    Thank you Cal
  14. Telling the parents.

    It's crazy how all of us feel like we have to hide and keep quite about who we are to please/protect our families and mostly our parents. I understand the feeling of wanting to blurt it out under stress. When I'm under stress from a long day or just life in general, then my mom wants start talking about Jesus/God/End time prophecy/Are you ready/Read your Bible/Are you teaching the kids/Going to church?/ etc...etc.. I want to say "look! I don't believe in all of that crap anymore! Stop stressing over it! It's stressing me out and I've got more important things to deal with!!" But I keep those thought to myself and just go along with whatever she's saying and try to find a reason to get off the phone.
  15. Quarter Life Crisis....?

    Honey go find yourself in the world!! Tomorrow will always be there. College will always be there!! Do like @Burnedout said and get a job on a Cruz ship omg that would be so fun! I work at an assisted living home and there is one lady there who worked as a flight attendent and she said it was the best and most fun thing she ever did. She's got amazing stories of seeing the world and all the adventures that come with it. So my advice: travel and discover the world and you'll find yourself along the way. You are young!! Enjoy it! There is plenty of time to worry about life when you get older. 😁