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#21 Taphophilia

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Posted 18 February 2006 - 06:55 PM

Hi Raphael,

Welcome!

I didn't welcome you in my first post since we tend to be leary of people who come here who are Christians. Anyone is of course welcome of any belief, but you must understand that we are attacked often. I wasn't sure where you stood, thanks for clarifying.

I hope you stay for a while.

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Posted 18 February 2006 - 07:12 PM

Taph ~ Totally understandable. Don't blame you guys a bit. To clarify a little more, I am just on a truth-seeking journey and I'm trying to piece it all together. I have no intentions of trying to re-convert anyone. To tell you the truth I am not sure why I'm here. I was actually doing a search for sages and this site came up. I saw "Ex-Christian" and found it intreging. Good luck to all of you in the Adventure of Life wherever it takes you.

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Posted 21 February 2006 - 01:54 PM

I'm not an athiest(I still believe in god), but I don't subscribe to the Judeo-Christian god anymore...

Basically, an ex-christian is someone who just doesn't follow Christianity anymore.

I'm still in the transition phase, but reading the stories on this site have helped me tremendously.
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Posted 21 February 2006 - 05:13 PM

LMR, that would make you an Ex-Christian.
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And behold, one came who in the form of a demon holding a beer, and he spake with a tongue of red. And when he spake, he said bye bye, and all listened, and watched as he smote the babbling troll with his +5 banhammer of fedupishness. And there was much rejoicing.



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Posted 22 February 2006 - 07:45 PM

Hiya everyone..Interesting question!

I've often wondered that myself. What am I? I feel that I don't fit into an easy category. I wish I did sometimes. My experience of being a member of the congregation was shit!

Here's the rub...I was raised by SDA'ist but never got it - that saved bit. Instead I ended up with a basic fear (hence belief in) Satan, devil, evil spirits, and all that goes bump in the night.
My deconversion which believe me has been very painful and long term was in that regard and not ever from the loss of god etc.
My family were very 'proper' chrisitans however I got hit with the bad shit I'm afraid and and that's what stuck, don't have much experience with the 'pleasures' or benefits of christianity.
but..I'm still an ex christian. :shrug: or at least a person affected by christianity in a profound way.

Edited by snookums, 22 February 2006 - 09:34 PM.

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Posted 23 February 2006 - 01:58 PM

An ex-christian is someone who's identity is wrapped up in the belief that they don't believe in bible god anymore.
I for one do not want that label or wish to be labeled an ex christian.
Deconverting is just part of a journey, why should I wholey identify with one part of an ongoing journey.

An ex christian is not who I am. Sure it's a part of me but fuck people seem to feel secure in having some form of identity, a grounding of sorts I suspect.

It's like saying I'm a plasterer. No my job is a plasterer. It's not the complete me is it.
It all depends on how much you choose to accept the identity isn't it ?
But that's us humans, we classify to give us substance. To create a structured form of ourselves within reality, much like our bodies defines our form in the 3 dimensional realm so to me identities defines ourselves in our minds and in the minds of others.
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Posted 23 February 2006 - 02:17 PM

I'm currently agnostic. I was raised Lutheran Mo. Synod. I've realized that the Bible is just a myth. I don't think there is a religion on this planet that isn't based on a myth, but some are more harmful than others.

I researched Gnosticism for a while when I was deconverting, but found that I couldn't literally believe in it anymore than I could literally believe in anything else without evidence.
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Posted 23 February 2006 - 02:48 PM

I would say I'm an ex-christian in the same way other people are recovering alcoholic. Certainly, I don't call myself such in the "real world" but this is a support site and as such, I accept this label as a way to show I am part of this community...

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Posted 23 February 2006 - 02:59 PM

I'm and have been here ages ago, an eccentric Ex-Christian. Was checking up here to see what has been going on, when the name ... 'Raphael' caught my attention.

That is because my favorite music is 'New Age' and there is a great Musician named 'Raphael' with which in irrony to me has ... (I'm abit infering by some writen discription on these Albums I've got of ... 'Raphael')

... 'Music to disappear in'
... 'aNgeLs of tHe DeeP'

... 'aNgeLs of tHe Deep' Is Out Of This World! I Love it, but the Titles to the Musical Pieces seem ... (???) Yes! (From a Christian Background.)

Like what's here ... (???)

I'm Agnostic. I don't see evidence of God, but the bit on Intelligent Design has caused me to wounder a bit. I had to get away from this place back since October, because I am eccentric to lifestyles here at times.
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#30 Raphael

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Posted 24 February 2006 - 09:59 PM

Nimbus ~ I chose Raphael because I read of him as one of the 4 arch-angels; the other 3 are Michael, Gabriel and Phanuel. Raphael's charge is to the healing of the souls.

When I saw "Angels in the Deep" ~ that caught MY attention!

I just got back from doing a general search on the name and found out ~
There was a High Renaissanse Italian artist by that name the painted mostly Madonnas!!!

I really want to hear some music to disappear in ~ any audio links?
Nice to meet you ~ Raphael

Thanks again for all your imput you guys. I am really enjoying myself here. I may throw out some bizzare stuff at times; but I do think it's important for us all to be secure in what we believe in; whatever that may be, without feeling the need to push it on anyone else. Then the conversation really gets fun! You've all be great...so far. ~ later
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Posted 24 February 2006 - 11:51 PM

Here is some Links ...

valley-entertainment.com Labels from Hearts Of Space Page 2

music to disappear in

aNgeLs of tHe DeeP

And by the way, my name is ... Michael
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Posted 25 February 2006 - 12:52 PM

Greetings Michael ~ Thank you for the links.

I've always been interested in the supernatural. Even as a child I had cool dreams of being able to fly. I couldn't wait to go to sleep!

I'm curious as to your view of things unseen ~ Raphael
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Posted 25 February 2006 - 01:35 PM

You've all be great...so far. ~ later

LOL I'm glad we meet your approval...so far.
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Posted 25 February 2006 - 02:00 PM

Nimbus ~ I chose Raphael because I read of him as one of the 4 arch-angels; the other 3 are Michael, Gabriel and Phanuel. Raphael's charge is to the healing of the souls.

When I saw "Angels in the Deep" ~ that caught MY attention!

I just got back from doing a general search on the name and found out ~
There was a High Renaissanse Italian artist by that name the painted mostly Madonnas!!!

I really want to hear some music to disappear in ~ any audio links?
Nice to meet you ~ Raphael

Thanks again for all your imput you guys. I am really enjoying myself here. I may throw out some bizzare stuff at times; but I do think it's important for us all to be secure in what we believe in; whatever that may be, without feeling the need to push it on anyone else. Then the conversation really gets fun! You've all be great...so far. ~ later


Raffaello Santi or Raffaello Sanzio in Urbino, Raphael is the English name. Painters of that time painted Christian themes because they were a paying gig.

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Posted 25 February 2006 - 06:58 PM

The one I saw was Sanzio. Did Santi paint similar stuff? I'm not familiar with art history and didn't know 'till now that there was a High Renaissance period; which was described as an explosion of creativity. I'll try to find time to check it out a little more. I guess it doesn't matter what these guys painted, they were the Masters.
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