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aboveandbeyond Posted February 14, 2016 Share Posted February 14, 2016 I am so sorry to hear that. I couldn't imagine what you are going through... Stay strong, reach out to good friends and family at the right time but as for right now, really reflect on whether it is worth staying in the relationship. Personally, I would move on and view it as an opportunity to better yourself and get out a relationship that was eventually going to fail. I was cheated on once and the saying is true - once a cheater, always a cheater. You deserve better! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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StillLooking Posted February 14, 2016 Share Posted February 14, 2016 I am sorry to hear this. Despite the pain that you are feeling now it will be best if you contact an attorney to make sure you will get your child support payments. After that you can decide what you want to do with the relationship. If you feel so much pain you can see a therapist too. I wish you strength in handling this painful moment. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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SilentLoner Posted February 14, 2016 Share Posted February 14, 2016 I'm really sorry, I really am. But I agree, you should consult a lawyer. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Daffodil Posted February 14, 2016 Share Posted February 14, 2016 Wow, that sucks. I agree with the others - get your ducks in a row before making any moves. I'm so sorry this has happened to you. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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Fweethawt Posted February 14, 2016 Share Posted February 14, 2016 Like sands through the hourglass... Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
duderonomy Posted February 14, 2016 Share Posted February 14, 2016 Miamia, I hope everything works out for you. I don't know what "Fml" means. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
RedStar Posted February 14, 2016 Share Posted February 14, 2016 Wow, I'm sorry all this has happened, sounds like he's very different to what you thought, it's really difficult when that happens but you're not dumb, some people are very good liars and that's not your fault. 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
rjn Posted February 14, 2016 Share Posted February 14, 2016 Miamia, I hope everything works out for you. I don't know what "Fml" means. Fml means "Fuck my life". Funny, I was thinking of starting a thread with the same title when I stumbled upon this. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
miamia Posted February 14, 2016 Author Share Posted February 14, 2016 Well we had a long talk and cleared some confusion up. Trying to be trusting. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ToHellWithMe Posted February 14, 2016 Share Posted February 14, 2016 Trying to be trusting.W...why on earth? Didn't you just mention 100% evidence on that he's not trustworthy. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Fweethawt Posted February 14, 2016 Share Posted February 14, 2016 I see where this is going... Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
miamia Posted February 14, 2016 Author Share Posted February 14, 2016 Ok So when I was at the friends house and accidentally stumbled on the texts, I misread them. Went through his phone later, shady I know, and found that he did in fact, not cheat on me. I did however find some other conversations that happened that were a breach of trust. Trying to figure everything out. I was freaking out last night. Sorry guys Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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