So I slowly find out about a crush that a severely emotionally troubled man might have on me. This is a man I mean, in regular life I mean not on the internet. And I have absolutely no problem with "emotionally troubled" individuals because I know myself to be the most emotionally troubled person I've ever met. But the difference between me and this guy (I'm going to call him, for a nickname, Trouble), the difference is that I know myself to have serious problems and I know my limitations and everything, and so I don't push too far. I stay away from serious relationships because I am manic depressive and everything. But Trouble, he seems to know a little bit that he is shall we say "sick", but he does not want to get help because he likes to be the way he is. He even seems proud of it. I know if I got in a relationship with Trouble I would be abused by him. There is no doubt in my mind I would be abused and harmed. I think that he really thinks that he loves me but his idea of love is way too rough for me. So now I have to deal with this, and I have to avoid any kind of relationship with Trouble, without hurting his feelings and further sending him into an emotional disaster. And what makes it a bit hard is I do have something of an attraction to Trouble say physically and there are great aspects of his personality but he is a two sided man and when you consider both sides of him he just is not capable of having a healthy relationship, but he either does not understand that or if he does understand it he doesn't care. Trouble has been suggesting sexual contact between us. I mean that Trouble thinks we should get in a sexual relationship together someday. But I keep saying, no, no, not a good idea. He thinks he is mentally stable but I just can see that he isn't. Trouble suggests that I would make him better if I got in a relationship with him if I gave him a chance.