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Status Updates posted by Falloutdude

  1. Scalia's career was filled with bigotry and hypocrisy. I see nothing wrong without neglecting to pay homage to him.

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    2. FreeThinkerNZ


      Obama didn't neglect to pay homage to him, he had Biden go in his place, as heads of state often do.

    3. Lilith666


      @florduh When did Scalia commit murder?

    4. florduh


      Lilith666: I don't know if Scalia murdered anyone. My point was that being appointed to a high office doesn't automatically make one worthy of executing that office in a beneficial way or make the person worthy of respect if he's a douche.

  2. Is this 'Ash Wednesday' new? I haven't seen it until this year.

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    2. pratt


      ash wednesday, maudy thursday,,,,, think i had that in methodist tradition

    3. Cousin Ricky

      Cousin Ricky

      Catholics also celebrate Maudy Thursday, although they don't call it that.

    4. SilentLoner


      Saw that all through my childhood lol. But then again that was in a tiny catholic country. Its less common in the US.

  3. It's funny how now in my life religion rarely ever presents itself as an issue or something I worry about or obsess over. I feel like I'm largely able to live my normal life much more freely. I'm honestly surprised this period in my life has come, especially given how much I obsessed about it before.

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    2. FreeThinkerNZ


      that's so good to hear! esp. considering the struggles you have had


    3. Margee


      I'm soooo happy for you Dude!! (hug)

    4. mymistake


      Nice to see you again Falloutdude. Glad to hear things are working good for you.

  4. Lesson learned. Telling someone you like them is ultimately not worth the subsequent pain of rejection. Loneliness is much less painful, I knew this intuitively before, but now I am reminded by experience. I'm tired of getting my heart broke, it's just not worth it.

    1. ficino


      I've been there too, dude. Eventually I thought maybe the "fishing" analogy sort of works: you cast your line out there, and a lot of times, you don't get any bites, but sometimes you do. Don't give up on the whole of humanity! Stepping back and delving into, and developing, those parts of yourself/your life that have the most to give to someone may be a good move. Anyway, thinking of you, f


  5. I've been out for too long, for this shit to still effect me as much as it does sometimes.

    1. FreeThinkerNZ


      Patience, grasshopper. You were indoctrinated for a long time, it can take a while to recover. Try to be gentle with yourself.

  6. So apparently I'm less of a man/many women wouldn't date me because I've had sex with another man. Meh, good thing I don't really want to be with a woman. :P

    1. Helvetios


      Can you really think of anything manlier than having sex with another man, though

    2. FreeThinkerNZ


      FWIW, I have no issue about sex with a bi guy. I would have an issue dating a guy who was bi but in denial about it. In my world, any sexual orientation is fine.

    3. Deidre


      Hmmm wonder what their reasons were. why would it matter?

  7. I give up on love and romance. Everyone just uses you and throws you away when they're done, like a damn kleenex. i'm tired of having my heart torn apart.

    1. violetbutterfly
    2. milesaway


      i totally agree. i've had it with guys who treat me like shit and abandon me when something else comes along. i'm done with guys who treat me like a last resort, and my trust won't come easy or cheap anymore.

  8. I require cuddles with a nice, tender man, stat. ;)

  9. R.I.P. Ex-C Chat

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    2. FreeThinkerNZ


      Idk, looks like there's plenty of people in the ex-c chatroom at the moment.

    3. bdp


      I don't have access to the chatroom.

    4. Falloutdude


      it's just that it's not as busy/active as it was just a week or so ago. Idk.

  10. Wtf do you not understand about an HOUR lunch. Not one and a half hours, ONE. Two different coworkers, two days in a fucking row leaving me out there myself...Ok, I'm done bitching about it now...

    1. Fuego


      Our bosses stuck GPS units on our vans because guys were driving around all day, going out to the lake, etc. Guys were complaining about being watched all the time. Freakin deserve it for that kind of behavior.

  11. Got caught by my mom putting makeup on, planned on putting it on in the bathroom, I guess I always knew I wouldn't be able hide it forever, I just figured I'd last longer than one hour....

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    2. mymistake


      So she gave you lip-gloss as a test? I hope your mother learns to accept you for who you are.

    3. Falloutdude


      She didn't mind the lip gloss, but it made me want to buy eyeliner, eye shadow, and lipstick. I basically told her either she accepts it, of she's not going to be able to be a part of my life. She says she does, but I told her it's going to have to take time for me to trust her, considering her past actions. MM it wasn't a test, I guess somehow she didn't consider it a girl thing. idk.

    4. GypsyMoon


      Weird, at least she's making an effort to accept it though :) better than most responses you could've gotten

  12. OMG I can access the site again! :D Thank you Dave!

  13. It's difficult to put on a smile and act alright, so as to not dampen their spirits as you assist them with their issues, when inside, you're crying.

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    2. Falloutdude


      Actually making my friend feel better made me feel a little better, so I guess it's sometimes good to fake it till you make it.

    3. Darklady


      you are pretty cool :) hang in there

    4. Thumbelina


      "Actually making my friend feel better made me feel a little better, so I guess it's sometimes good to fake it till you make it."


      It's a rule that God set up, that's why I said that being on here helped me; I came on here trying to explain to folk that everlasting torture is NOT God's way (so many folk had anxiety over that) & I got blessed, then it made me develop a fondness for folk around here & I don't forget the folk on this website :)

  14. I wish there were a more cohesive/united LGBT community here. I feel isolated.

    1. FreeThinkerNZ


      Do you mean where you live? I empathise.

    2. Falloutdude


      Yes, there are no gay bars or active LGBT activist groups or anything here.

  15. Accidentally said my (gay) uncle's name too loud when I decided to call him, mom flipped out. It's so nice to be part of a happy, homophobic family.

    1. gall


      Thankfully your bigoted relatives don't control what you think :)

  16. What's the difference between a moderator and a supermoderator? (no this isn't the setup for a bad joke)

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    2. florduh


      About 2 inches. (Lord, I apologize, and be with the starving pygmies in New Guinea, Amen.)


    3. TrueFreedom


      *thinks that there's been a mistake*

    4. Helvetios
  17. The Interview was hilarious, I too am a firework "Kim Jong Un"

  18. On a heavy Eminem kick lately.

  19. Being a social pariah isn't as much fun as I thought it'd be.

    1. TrueFreedom


      That doesn't sound like much fun.

    2. Fweethawt


      You should try being a social goldfish. They are much nicer fish.

    3. SquareOne
  20. From a nation under God, I feel its love like a cattle prod

  21. I guess I just can't listen to music for awhile....

  22. For the love of someone, please people on the internet, learn the difference between loose and lose. I implore you.

    1. Deidre


      you've loosed me.


  23. Every time my dad "rebukes" his cough, I can't help but roll my eyes.

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    2. Astreja


      I do hope he doesn't subscribe to the "demon theory" of medicine.

    3. Fuego


      Ever wonder how these demons can stand against such faith and the power of Jesus? ;-)


    4. pratt


      does that mean the coughing demon n the holy ghost residing in the same body?

  24. I think I might be developing carpal tunnel. :(

    1. Helvetios


      Oh no, hope it isn't exc's fault! Be careful :)

  25. And it's hard to learn, and it's hard to love, when you're giving me such sweet nothing

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