Falloutdude

Obama didn't neglect to pay homage to him, he had Biden go in his place, as heads of state often do.

@florduh When did Scalia commit murder?

Lilith666: I don't know if Scalia murdered anyone. My point was that being appointed to a high office doesn't automatically make one worthy of executing that office in a beneficial way or make the person worthy of respect if he's a douche.

ash wednesday, maudy thursday,,,,, think i had that in methodist tradition

Catholics also celebrate Maudy Thursday, although they don't call it that.

Saw that all through my childhood lol. But then again that was in a tiny catholic country. Its less common in the US.

that's so good to hear! esp. considering the struggles you have had

I'm soooo happy for you Dude!! (hug)

Nice to see you again Falloutdude. Glad to hear things are working good for you.

I've been there too, dude. Eventually I thought maybe the "fishing" analogy sort of works: you cast your line out there, and a lot of times, you don't get any bites, but sometimes you do. Don't give up on the whole of humanity! Stepping back and delving into, and developing, those parts of yourself/your life that have the most to give to someone may be a good move. Anyway, thinking of you, f

Patience, grasshopper. You were indoctrinated for a long time, it can take a while to recover. Try to be gentle with yourself.

Can you really think of anything manlier than having sex with another man, though

FWIW, I have no issue about sex with a bi guy. I would have an issue dating a guy who was bi but in denial about it. In my world, any sexual orientation is fine.

Hmmm wonder what their reasons were. why would it matter?

I hear you.

i totally agree. i've had it with guys who treat me like shit and abandon me when something else comes along. i'm done with guys who treat me like a last resort, and my trust won't come easy or cheap anymore.

Idk, looks like there's plenty of people in the ex-c chatroom at the moment.

I don't have access to the chatroom.

it's just that it's not as busy/active as it was just a week or so ago. Idk.

Our bosses stuck GPS units on our vans because guys were driving around all day, going out to the lake, etc. Guys were complaining about being watched all the time. Freakin deserve it for that kind of behavior.

So she gave you lip-gloss as a test? I hope your mother learns to accept you for who you are.

She didn't mind the lip gloss, but it made me want to buy eyeliner, eye shadow, and lipstick. I basically told her either she accepts it, of she's not going to be able to be a part of my life. She says she does, but I told her it's going to have to take time for me to trust her, considering her past actions. MM it wasn't a test, I guess somehow she didn't consider it a girl thing. idk.

Weird, at least she's making an effort to accept it though better than most responses you could've gotten

Actually making my friend feel better made me feel a little better, so I guess it's sometimes good to fake it till you make it.

you are pretty cool hang in there

"Actually making my friend feel better made me feel a little better, so I guess it's sometimes good to fake it till you make it."

It's a rule that God set up, that's why I said that being on here helped me; I came on here trying to explain to folk that everlasting torture is NOT God's way (so many folk had anxiety over that) & I got blessed, then it made me develop a fondness for folk around here & I don't forget the folk on this website

Do you mean where you live? I empathise.

Yes, there are no gay bars or active LGBT activist groups or anything here.

Thankfully your bigoted relatives don't control what you think