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ConsiderTheSource last won the day on February 4 2019

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    After 26 years of processing and reinventing history to fit the old book and being treated as a total doormat for living the life of a Matthew Chapter 5 "Christian"... and not understanding why I was treated with such disrespect... especially by the church folks.. and still "staying" with the church for many years...I was able to rewrite my whole mental operating system after forming these three words in my mind "god is imaginary".... and.... all of a sudden.. the way folks behave made total sense to me for the first time in my life. Just like the earth travels around the sun.. and not the otherway around. An adult life of anxiety just simply disappeared... I still have my last bottle of prescription medication from three years ago. Zero anxiety... and so much happiness. I now have 35 or so years left to REALLY LIVE!!!

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  1. Definitely! My adult anxiety disappeared. I became much more confident in my speech and social settings. And, amazingly, even my legacy church friends noticed a "positive" difference. Had more than one tell me they liked mr better "this way" (as opposed to Christ commanded meek, I guess).
  2. Not sure I understand this response. I am just talking about the math. .30 * .30 * .30 * .30 yields an error rate < .01. Of course this assumes the 30% error rate is random in nature, and not dependent on an outside factor. If we don't have a more accurate alternative, and if there is demand for a higher level of accuracy, this is one way to get there.
  3. Yes. This. If they make a claim, and if there is true freedom of speech, we should have every right to demand evidence and/or refute....without being subject to "you must respect my religious beliefs", else social/property punishment. This is a big reason why I chosen not to use my real name Facebook account for thought discussion purposes. No matter how I would phrase my thoughts, someone would put me in the asshole category. But, as time goes on, I get more and more tempted to do so.
  4. The solution for the 30% false tests is simply. Take the test four times. If you have the same result each time there is less than a 1% chance of it not being accurate.
  5. This needs to be "Leave THEIR religion".
  6. Mona, I soooo wish I could get to where you are at. Instead, every time a religious/bible category comes up on the show Jeopardy! I inevitably run the category....and get immediately upset that this crap is stuck in my head! I so wish I could delete it all.
  7. Any belief system that encourages or demands that one submit to/be less than solely based on their sex/gender is infinitely immoral. Hell no I would not tolerate this. I would beat it down. If I could not beat it down, I would run far far away. It takes indoctrination/programming/brainwashing.. the expertise of religion, to get one to the point of accepting this....or even considering it might be "ok" in a particular circumstance. Soooo glad to be far far away from the religious mindfucks.
  8. The big issue with these how to respond list is that they think we must always "assume god" in all of our conversations with believers. By "assuming god" we automatically lose. They automatically get to control the arguement. They will always be able to come up with some sort of apologetics, or spin to support their beilef set against whatever we choose to present. It is just not productive, nor worrh the effort. Instead, make them justify their god concept to you....and shoot down the logical fallacies like ducks at an arcade when they send them your way. Never ever cede the burden of proof for nothing in return.
  9. No magic book got me to the point of understanding the process. It was my cognitive processes, examining my life experiences, those of others, and the response patterns of these folks; bouncing the responses off of fact and reality, and reprocessing it all over again. It was exhausting. But, I got "there" after a few years. Now, my mind is very much at peace with it all.
  10. I tire of the "something from nothing" argument. How does anyone know that a state of "nothing" has occurred? The evidence before us strongly suggests there always has be "something". So the state of "nothing" is not provable. It has to been assumed. We should not allow it to be thrown out on the table as an obvious fact.
  11. In the week after I processed the self posed questions of "What if God is imaginary? What would this imply for the people around me and the how/why they interact the way they do" I feverishly researched online to see if others had a similar revelation. During this feverish search I ran across the "Why does god not heal amputees" website". I completed the deconstruction process five days previously, now fully understanding that god did not exist (I had dismissed bible god four years prior). But, this site was the first to hit my brain with the thought "Oh my! It is so clear and obvious. How could I of been sooooo stupid to fall for all of this. How could I stay stuck in this crap for 25 adult years?" This, in turn, sent me on a much longer search to answer the "why did/does this happen to me and others?" question, which Fuego is so well versed and articulate in. I now am confident I have a firm grasp on most all of the processes that lead folks to a state of being programmed/indoctrinated. I like being at this place in my knowledge.
  12. Thanks again for your almost always well thought out and spot on thoughts. I am quite thrilled that maybe I have this observed quasi contradiction figured out. I have been bothered for some time why my response to deconstruction was so immediate, and different, than so many others. What you are saying makes a lot of sense. It is the trauma, real and remembered, that generates the anxiety. For me, removing my religious programming was an action that firewalled off most all of the trama. There is nothing else in my life, sans religious advertising/social media, insisting I relive and reprocess their abusive mental garbage. Few childhood memories, out side of Sunday School, to reprocess. And, most importantly, no family interjecting along the way, one of the few bonuses that comes from losing all immediate birth family at only age 45. It makes sense. I am open to all discussion on this, confirming or noncomfirming. Eight years without anxiety whatsoever. Life is so much better.
  13. For a long time, close to 8 years now, I have been trying to reconcile my personal experience of a complete, and immediately, elimination of an adult life of medically controlled anxiety at deconversion versus the continued anxiety I read from soooo many who have rejected faith. I think, maybe, I have found a possible explanation. My dad was an agnostic. He used to tell me he prayed to god everynight "just in case he was there", yet he also railed against the church hypocrites. Unfortunately, for me, i ended up in Sunday school...."free babysitting", followed by indoctrination by fundys as a young adult. So, today, it occurred to me while reading a parent vs child testimony on another ex-christian site that maybe my anxiety disappeared as I had no family reinforcing the anxiety once I deconverted.....but these others folks, still dealing with anxiety, have actual and/or past programming from being raised in a family fully consumption by the church mindfuck. It haughts them in ways that do not impact me Does this sound reasonable? Is this the explanation I have been seeking for so long? Your thoughts are greatly valued. Thank you so much.
  14. Agree. Tells us little about them. Except, that they are dislussional. Very very dislussional.
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