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ToHellWithMe

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  1. I get the feeling that your spirituality kind of resembles mine, so I naturally approve of it at least to that degree. But this one thing you said seems to go against what I understood of it. You seem to operate very much on intuition and feeling (I mean I know I do) yet you talk about logic and reasoning here. Intuition surely utilizes logic to some degree as well, but when people say 'logic' they usually mean something exact and dry. Logic can be so mundane it's fucking boring and depressingly tedious, and pretty much opposite to anything spiritual as far as I understand spiritua
  2. Many of us have a need for some banter. Could be at a regular table in a pub. Could be on Twitter. It makes perfect sense that for some it could be here.
  3. I've heard shelters can indeed be humiliating in USA if that's where you're from. I'm from Europe and cannot really offer any advice. All I've seen on the topic is a youtube video by a former homeless guy in Kansas.
  4. So, why are you going to die and why could you not at least find shelter even if you'll be homeless?
  5. Haha, how concise. And relatable, tbh. I was raised into Christianity, and accepting that it's all fantasy was painful and still persists to be painful as fuck. At times of weakness anyway.
  6. Maybe, or maybe you'll just make her defensive and resentful, ruining any further chances with her. Not to imply that it would be healthy to assume there is necessarily any chance either way. I'd just keep the bitter and blaming feelings to myself and only express sadness to the girl. But that's me.
  7. Oh, that does it. Marry me, sunshine. Maybe you need someone or someones who can appreciate your kindness and who won't mistake it for weakness. Easier said than done, of course.
  8. Your post seems fair and good. Nothing wrong with being sad about sad stuff. The sadness not going away sounds weird but there can be a perfectly good reason. Like maybe you've not fully dealt with those facts of life yet and have to make your peace with them. In that case it's work that has to be done regardless of how much there is. And sometimes re-done to when you have gone astray. I don't trust psychologists and meds are the fashionable, optimistic and not fully understood treatment in our age like lobotomy was in the previous age. However, nothing wrong with seeking council a
  9. If there is a god there's no reason to think it's the Christian god. Maybe there is a god who is just using Christianity as well as other religions to...whatever they can be used for. If you think you can hear what people are thinking, you can test it if you know how to be critical and skeptical. I mean it sounds too good to be true, so... well you can guess what my opinion is.
  10. That sounds pretty fucking weird indeed. As with all stupidity, it's best to 1) cut it out of your life, 2) disregard it forever. It's better to marvel at the ridiculousness of what some people say and admire their gall rather than try to reason and plead with them. I mean some can speak bullshit so confidently and with a perfect poker face you just have to admit you're not their match and move on. Even if you could win, is it necessarily worth it?
  11. Void and emptiness. There's no meaning except what our instincts and emotions dictate to be meaningful. We gotta become godlike and give the meaning to everything. In Christianity, I really liked the idea that life is just a test and what we are prepared for is the real thing. I still like to think that might be the case, and that Christianity is just a human construct, a religion among others leeching off that higher truth.
  12. If you mean he shouldn't be able to settle cases with money it's a different topic. I'll indulge in it this much: if allegations of his harassment could be a strong enough case to bring DJT down with, it would likely have already happened. As it hasn't, there either have been no strong cases or all of them have been settled. The only important link between DJT and this topic is the fact that for him, the presumption of innocence until proven guilty is obviously still in effect. Leftist haters ready to make up accusations out of thin air likely exist in great numbers and according t
  13. At this point they just want us to submit and meekly live under the Damoclean sword.
  14. Disregarding everything I disagree with in your message, I'll take this one bit instead. Because it's probably the crux of #metoo anyway. If you're in a high enough position, you can avoid repercussions for sexual offences lesser men can be easily destroyed with.
  15. That's new to me. I googled it up and: So, another boastful joke. Not a crime. If she heard it and understood it, sure she could be uncomfortable if she's been fed with victim narratives or offended if she's got a spine instead, but is this really where you want to draw the line? How about instead of criminalizing this you teach girls they don't need to give a shit about words like that? That they can even serve them back? That they have no less agency than men in a civilized context where violence is not an option?
  16. It could have been all talk, too. Posturing, you know. Appearing macho by expressing ridiculously over-the-top misogyny. It's just because it's Trump that we might actually believe it. Anyone else say that? Obvious joke. 4d-chess-wise it might not have been a good move as come candidacy it's top headline material. Finest shit to fling. Then again, he won anyway, so maybe it was a good move. If he really has done it, I suppose it's such a special case we can only shrug. I mean he can buy his way out. If the victims (assuming they exist) are pacified by the money instead of continuin
  17. I can sympathize with that partially and that wasn't what I felt like tackling first when I read the post. Sure, now that you mention it and I think about it more I feel disgust. Don't fucking degrade yourself unless it's essential to your physical safety or something. If you want respect you're going to have to draw lines and be confrontational. If there are people around you have witnesses and you don't really have to fear physical abuse. A damsel in violent distress is a fine excuse to fuck the obviously offending dude up. Hell, everyone would jump on the opportunity. Humiliate him so badly
  18. Well, yeah. Sometimes I should do that, too. Maybe even show sympathy if it's a situation where I can afford to. But in the end, judgemental attitude is the way to confidence, earning respect and getting out of abuse, so they better adopt it. Seeing an example might serve them, too. In some things there can be no fucking excuses. Only harsh judgement.
  19. I'd have to see the situation to agree. Usually "it's for our kids" is just something they tell themselves in order to excuse their lack of backbone. Would probably set a better example for the children to walk away from abuse. Show the kids they don't need to tolerate stuff like that or sacrifice their wellbeing for others. They can probably use both. Consider the above scenario. Judge the abused wives for lack of backbone but also provide shelter or something so they can leave when they need to. If their lack of action is not a failure, neither is facing the fears and taking a
  20. Oh I'm with you on this. What has come to light is just the tip of the iceberg. I've seen the sleazy, slightly gropy advances women have to suffer within my own groups of friends. To my puzzlement they seem to put up with the lack of respect to quite an extent, while if it were me being treated like that I would put a quick, harsh stop to it. With some backbone they could frighten those sleazy men and somewhat tarnish their rep while gaining respect themselves. Yet they won't do that.
  21. We do not share that rosy view of people. Many women will accuse innocent men of rape to protect their own reputation when the women themselves have been faithless. Some women will even threaten a taxi driver with a false allegation to avoid paying the fare.
  22. You can even be gleeful about it for all I care. That's not a problem. Finding an agreeable arrangement is. For me to act to better the treatment of women, it has to coincide with my interests. I mean I'm all for hanging rapists and cutting off lesser offenders' balls etc, just like any other man is. Just name your demands, harshness won't be an issue. The more uncivilized idiots we put down, the better the world will be. What I will need is to be able to protect my own innocent ass. I need women to realize that much if they want my cooperation. The more bloodlust you have, th
  23. I don't believe any of our Classically [... snip] The first half or so of this long post was very interesting and on-topic. That is, until the india-related stuff which seemed irrelevant. Just as a heads-up for those who maybe ignored the walls of text like I first did.
  24. EDIT: (nevermind. redacted. i posted before reading the new responses)
  25. Sounds like your lack of fear is thanks to you being very careful. All in all, fair enough. I think I'm beginning to see where you are coming from and looks like our only difference might be that we assign different weights to the problematic aspects. Overall, I am glad that #metoo happened. Sucks for the unlucky and unwise, but it's good drama, brings women's victim mentality out in the open, and motivates men to become more flawless in dealing with it. The victims of false accusations can only blame their lack of foresight.
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