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  1. Having a friend make headline news by becoming the embodiment of everything wrong in the world was not how I imagined my evening would begin. Scott Smith, one of the hosts of the Recovering From Religion podcast, top dog activist for Military Association of Atheists and Freethinkers (MAAF ), father of three, and all around good guy, turned a very dark corner earlier today. He shot and killed his wife and then took his own life just as police arrived. Three school age girls are going home to relatives instead of their own bedrooms and welcoming arms of their parents. The footsteps of mom and dad in the hall to tuck them in are now permanently relegated to memory and dreams. The loving smile of dad is now a porcelain veneer of menace boiling beneath. Some might take offense to all this imagery, but the reality is whether mental illness was the primary cause or not (many say it was his losing to ptsd), he murdered his wife. He committed domestic violence. I feel that the constant woe of his ptsd being the cause removes some accountability from Scott's plate, and I am not going to have that. We can discuss this reality without eviscerating him. This was a man who was keenly aware of how ptsd affected him. His years in the military and then learning to live as a civilian activist out there to protect vets and bring further understanding to ptsd is important. He is not without his own weaknesses, and maybe the news of his wife's divorce pushed him to an edge he had never traversed before. This does not lessen or change the fact he committed domestic violence. He murdered his wife. He took an opportunity to control his life how he saw fit, and forced his soon to be ex-wife to follow. He even called the police and told them what he was doing. Once again, someone burned it all down because it wasn't going their way and they had to have absolute control. Does it really need to be said for the millionth time that mental health is a huge issue that is still taking baby steps to become a mature discussion in this country? And right now is the time in our community of freethinkers to seriously evaluate this issue in our own ranks. We cannot always see or know what is going on behind closed doors in our friends' lives, but we can consistently promote a very personal avenue of communication to find these dark moments in our impulses and try to diffuse them before they become tragedy. We can be active participants in our local communities to demand better crisis services without stigma. We can educate our communities that staying in the hospital for mental health reasons is not a thing to be embarrassed or ashamed of. Self-care must happen or we cannot take care of those we love. We will hurt them as we hurt ourselves. I have personally been to that dark edge and back, and luckily my family and I walked away intact. I didn't hide, but embraced help for once. But that was only after barely waking up from an intentional overdose because I couldn't process my guilt. Some might look back and say Scott was a good man who had his own demons that got the better of him. Some might look back and say he was a bad man, letting this murder define his legacy. What we should be looking back on is how we can help prevent more of these types of violent episodes from occurring due to any number of reasons, simply by being present and demanding we all take care of ourselves through proper programs and resources instead of the way Scott did it in the end. PTSD didn't kill his wife. He did. Let's prevent this from happening again.
  2. As many on this forum know. I recently came out to my wife as an atheist. That's truly been a roller coaster ride, that's involved everything from yelling at each other to being more open and close then we've ever been in the past eight years of marriage. Now, that I'm finally out as an atheist, I've been trying to find a local group to connect with. I found out that a local Recovering from Religion group was just getting started in my area. The first meeting was scheduled for March 3. I thought I'd discuss how everything went for those that might be interested in finding a group in your area. Here's the site to look for a local group: http://recoveringfro...pages/findgroup Since this group is just getting started, only six of us attended the first meeting. The organizer defined what the focus of the group was to be, which was ultimately is this is a place where we can come together, talk about our experiences leaving religion, and share in each other's lives. You don't have to have no beliefs in the spiritual to attend, the focus is more about leaving organized religion. Also, the organizer didn't want the group to be just a place to come and bash on religion or religious people. He said it's fine to vent, but as long as the context is more about getting something off your chest. We then spent the rest of the time introducing ourselves and explaining are upbringing and what led us out of our beliefs. The upcoming meetings will be more directed than this one was, since it was the first meeting. And, it was even suggested, that we can do a meetup at a coffee shop or bar in the future, to have a change in environment. I'm really excited to find a group to connect with, since I don't have any atheist friends that live around me right now. Hope this description was helpful to some of you out there. If you find yourself in an area where this isn't a local group, and you'd like to have one. You can start your own. Here's a site to get you started with that: http://recoveringfro...ges/StartAGroup
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