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i know what it's like to be a teen and live with a fundie. i am one, and i did. my mother is about as fundamental as can be.

she was an allcontrolling bitch who doesn't know a thing about raising a teen or pre teens. she controlled everything i did. i wasn't allowed to go to my friends houses during the week or during the school year. she made me dress like a prep and i wan't allowed to talk about boys or date until i was "in college".

 

EVERYTHING i did was controlled. there is a catch though. my brothers were able to do multiple sports during the year, go over to friends houses during the week and school year, own guns, play on the internet w/out being watched and all kinds of stuff that i wasn't. the only reason this was was because i am girl and my brothers are...well...boys.

 

i finally had it with my mom and left.

 

she just recently got into a fight with me over my brother's muscles and my BF's. it was so frustrating because she starts shit over stupid stuff...it totally annoys me. i finally told her that i had had enough and that i wasn't going to talk to her.

 

can't believe i finally did it, but it feels good. no more guilt of having to take any more of her crap. :wicked:

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Hey, welcome to the community! I'm glad you're starting to find your own way... I was really lucky to have very open-minded parents who didn't impose on me too much, so I can't really sympathize with you but I'm sure there's lots of people here who can. :)

 

Looking forward to getting to know you better! Cheers!

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Man. Did we have the same mother?? Or did both our mothers just go to the same Bad Parenting 101 classes??

 

Good on you for standing your ground. I had to marry my way out. It sucked, but either way - out is better.

 

Welcome to the forum.

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