decafaholic Posted September 27, 2008 Share Posted September 27, 2008 First I want to thank everyone for their advice! You guys always do come through when I need help making decisions. One of the replies make me really think about whether what I was asking him to do was fair. We talked things out and we both agreed that what his pastor doesn't know wont hurt anyone for the time being. His church is 40 miles out of town and unless a family member rats him out (which he says is unlikely) his pastor is not likely to find out. Especially since I told him I'm not going to that church with him. I asked him how his family felt about me and he said his family didn't have any problem with me. Then I asked him if he felt guilty for dating an atheist and he said he didn't feel guilty before and he doesn't feel guilty now. After our conversation, I felt a lot better and we agreed to meet up the next day. He asked me out, I said yes, we're back together now. and i'm happy! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Spiderwire Posted September 27, 2008 Share Posted September 27, 2008 He asked me out, I said yes, we're back together now. and i'm happy! Then that's really all that matters, isn't it? I'm happy for you! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
HelloWorld Posted September 27, 2008 Share Posted September 27, 2008 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Neon Genesis Posted September 27, 2008 Share Posted September 27, 2008 Congrats on your happiness, Decaf! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
godlessgrrl Posted September 27, 2008 Share Posted September 27, 2008 Right on. I hope it works out. Please keep us posted how it all goes. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Crazycatlady Posted September 27, 2008 Share Posted September 27, 2008 Oh, it sounds like this turned out much better than I was expecting. I'm happy for both of you. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
mwc Posted September 29, 2008 Share Posted September 29, 2008 Then I asked him if he felt guilty for dating an atheist and he said he didn't feel guilty before and he doesn't feel guilty now. After our conversation, I felt a lot better and we agreed to meet up the next day. He asked me out, I said yes, we're back together now. and i'm happy! Well, as long as you're happy... But why don't you buy yourself a pair of steel toe boots so just in case this guy lets you down again you'll be all ready to kick him in the balls? mwc Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
decafaholic Posted September 30, 2008 Author Share Posted September 30, 2008 quote] Well, as long as you're happy... But why don't you buy yourself a pair of steel toe boots so just in case this guy lets you down again you'll be all ready to kick him in the balls? mwc A friend of mine assured me that if he breaks my heart over religion, she will break his knees with a baseball bat! I told her I would help...lol Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Crazycatlady Posted September 30, 2008 Share Posted September 30, 2008 Sounds like you've got your bases covered, then. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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