Daniel10_12, REPENT!

[SkepticOfBible]

The Lord knows who are His, and who are not.  He understands his children that can't stand those that are false... He commends us for inspecting and finding them false.  You know what, it's quite evident to me.

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What makes you think you are part of god's elect?

Doesn't the bible say that god will send certain delusion about one's salvation?

[pandora]

Your cock exists for the coupling with a christian white woman in order to produce offspring

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And even then, thou shalt not enjoy it (lust), OR ELSE!

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I think, in Christianity, that women have more guilt for masturbating then men do. Women do it to, but they act like they would never do it and all the men buy it.

It's like women have less sexual feelings or desires than men which isn't true.

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I don't know about you, but my and my closest two girlfriends had a nickname for masturbation. We called it "cheese." We would go around saying how we loved cheese, but felt guilty when we ate it. Most women, were as you said, in complete denial about it. But not me... I discovered the vibrator before I was a born again Christian (age 12). I became born again at age 14. But no one in Christianity could convince me that pleasuring myself was so wrong... especially since I could do it without lusting after any particular person! However, as I got older and more experienced in casual friendships with guys of the same age, that was harder to do... so of course I decreased the frequency of my masturabation, but I was never able to rid myself of that demon.

 

[Fweethawt]

I sure would like to have been the dude who wrote "Every Man's Battle"..

I'd be a rich somebitch.

 

That book is in every christian book store I was ever in.  The book teaches you how to "bounce" your eyes off of anything erotic that you see.  How to stay pure to Jesus when you are alone in a hotel room out of town.  You have to ask the hotel desk when you check in to disable the pay-per-view - since you can't trust yourself to not click on it once you get up to the room.

 

I'm quite sure that Daniel has a copy of it, with highlighted passages, and notes in the margins.

Back when I was a believer, I listened to just about every Christian radio program that I could get my ears on. I couldn't begin to tell you how many counseling shows delt with "turning away" from what they have come to call "lust".

"If you find yourself in a situation where you are alone with a woman (other than your spouse if you're married), you must immediately look to the Lord for a way to get out of that situation. It is in those situations that Satan will take advantage of you the most. Run away (literally) if you have to!"

 

 

And people believe this shit! They really think that they'll lose control of themselves if they're in the company of a woman.

[Guest JPD]

I don't know about you, but my and my closest two girlfriends had a nickname for masturbation. We called it "cheese." We would go around saying how we loved cheese, but felt guilty when we ate it. Most women, were as you said, in complete denial about it. But not me... I discovered the vibrator before I was a born again Christian (age 12). I became born again at age 14. But no one in Christianity could convince me that pleasuring myself was so wrong... especially since I could do it without lusting after any particular person! However, as I got older and more experienced in casual friendships with guys of the same age, that was harder to do... so of course I decreased the frequency of my masturabation, but I was never able to rid myself of that demon.

 

Dirty whore. PLUCK OUT THINE EYES! jk.

[pandora]

I sure would like to have been the dude who wrote "Every Man's Battle"..

I'd be a rich somebitch.

 

That book is in every christian book store I was ever in.  The book teaches you how to "bounce" your eyes off of anything erotic that you see.  How to stay pure to Jesus when you are alone in a hotel room out of town.  You have to ask the hotel desk when you check in to disable the pay-per-view - since you can't trust yourself to not click on it once you get up to the room.

 

I'm quite sure that Daniel has a copy of it, with highlighted passages, and notes in the margins.

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OMG My husband read this book. His "discipler" gave it to him in college. He liked it at first, but then realized it was a load of bull. He was like "How can anyone live like this??? Just to avoid spanking the monkey???? It isn't like it is worth rearranging your whole life for something that God hardly cares about and puts on the same level as not remembering to send a thank you card to someone for a gift..." That is how he eventually came to see masturbation after reading that book.

 

Repression breeds obsession... that is so incredibly true. Both for myself and for my husband... I was so worried about how other women dressed, got so offended and hurt when a guy would stare at a pretty girl, etc... now I don't care! Same for hubby... couldn't keep his eyes off girls when we were dating and "repressed" but now he is much more respectful.

[Fweethawt]

Extreme sexual repression = Extreme sexual obsession. 

 

Nice to be free of that insanity.

Ain't that the truth?

 

All that time, we were trained to believe it was a problem. The repression did indeed cause it to be an obsession. Then, once you realize they're just playing with your feelings, and amplifying them in order to generate "obedience" to their cause (which is more repression for the most part), the obsession goes away.

 

For me it did, anyway.

 

I never knew what respect for women was until I started thinking for myself.

 

 

Better late than never, I guess.

[Onyx]

To be honest, sexual repression is not the way to go.

I like being free with who I am. Yes, there must be a certain control but when repression get too far beyond your control, it spell disaster.

I never like to view porn, but I'm comfortable with not seeing porn. If I do, I just shake it off. I just don't care about porn. But other people love it. Who am I to judge? Now that's healthy respect for oneself and others's tastes.

 

On the other hand, fundamentalists repress themselves though against their will and to the leaders's wills. That is a probable disaster. Extreme sexual repression can lead to extreme sex crimes. Yes, we can control ourself when it comes to sex but not too much or loose or it goes out of hand.

 

In conclusion, be careful about doing what is okay and knowing what not to do sexually. All I can say is know yourself and you will be fine as long as you don't get too loose or too hard. Good luck to you all.

[Taphophilia]

Have any of you heard of the book "The Act of Marriage" by Tim LaHaye?

It's a Christian sex manual. I bought the book and read it just to read Christian porn.

[Fweethawt]

I bought the book and read it just to read Christian porn.

Why? Didn't you have a bible laying around somewhere? It would have saved you a couple of bucks if you went to The Source™ in the first place.

[Dio]

Have any of you heard of the book "The Act of Marriage" by Tim LaHaye?

It's a Christian sex manual.  I bought the book and read it just to read Christian porn.

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Yes, I admit, I read that when I was first married. It gives a whole new emphasis on the importance of 'missionary' work, since it seems that's the only acceptable ... well you know what I mean. What a terrible book. But you talk about sexual repression/obsession? Notice that most of the rest of LaHaye's later, more famous books have the word 'Behind' in the title. Is there something Freudian going on there?

 

 

 

 

 

 

I apologize for the preceding content of this post.

[Bluesman]

Now why in the hell would a loving God, who wants nothing but good for his people, make the human such a sexually driven creature, then put a bunch of rules (laws) on sex? Every human has masterbated, most of us having discovered it on our own. But yet, it is sin? This question was one of the contributers to my de-conversion.

[pandora]

Anyone ever seen the boxer shorts with "left behind" and "right behind" on them???

 

ROFL

 

 

Do some Christians really believe any position other than missionary is wrong???? I really don't get that one....

[The Holy Ghost]

Holy sweet mother of Me! Even We can not believe this thread has generated this much of a response! And Our very existence requires belief! Some of these comments are really tickling Our funny ghones. If it were at all possible, We would probably be dying from laughter.

[Bluesman]

Anyone ever seen the boxer shorts with "left behind" and "right behind" on them???

 

ROFL

 

 

Do some Christians really believe any position other than missionary is wrong???? I really don't get that one....

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Because Xians have such a negitive view of sex, anything that might make it "dirty" is SIN!!!

[Fweethawt]

Do some Christians really believe any position other than missionary is wrong???? I really don't get that one....

I'm pretty sure that this falls back on one of the teachings of the Catholic church. Yes, they go so far as to tell people what position to have sex in.

 

But anyway, it has something to do with that position being Godly™ because it puts the man on top (dominant) and the woman on the bottom (submissive), or something like that.

[pandora]

Do some Christians really believe any position other than missionary is wrong???? I really don't get that one....

I'm pretty sure that this falls back on one of the teachings of the Catholic church. Yes, they go so far as to tell people what position to have sex in.

 

But anyway, it has something to do with that position being Godly because it puts the man on top (dominant) and the woman on the bottom (submissive), or something like that.

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Oh... hmm... whatever. LOL

[Bluesman]

Hey Holy Ghost. What's up with the ghose avatar and calling yourself the Holy Ghost? Back in my day as a "spirit filled" Xian, that would be blasphamy! What say you?

[Guest JPD]

But anyway, it has something to do with that position being Godly™ because it puts the man on top (dominant) and the woman on the bottom (submissive), or something like that.

 

So do many anal positions, as well as other vaginal positions. I think it's so you have to look your "victim" in the eye and think about the awful disgusting dirty thing you are doing to them, and be ashamed that someone sees you in this vulnerable animal state.

[The Holy Ghost]

Hey Holy Ghost. What's up with the ghose avatar and calling yourself the Holy Ghost? Back in my day as a "spirit filled" Xian, that would be blasphamy!  What say you?

What say Us? We say, how often do you find it to be insulting when someone calls you by your real name?

 

There is your answer, my friend.

[All Gods Fail]

So do many anal positions, as well as other vaginal positions. I think it's so you have to look your "victim" in the eye and think about the awful disgusting dirty thing you are doing to them, and be ashamed that someone sees you in this vulnerable animal state.

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That's what makes it so hot...

 

Actually, xtians made sex twice as pleasurable by making it a dirty, shameful sin. What happens if sex loses the 'lure of the forbidden'? It becomes kinda dull.

 

Shrink: "Do you think sex is dirty?"

Woody Allen: "Well...only if it's good."

[Ouroboros]

He has a website?  What is it??

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Website: http://www.xanga.com/home.aspx?user=daniel_1012

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Man! Was it hard to read the white against the yellow, and all the other completely rule-breaking designs... Uuurgh!

[Guest JPD]

Actually, xtians made sex twice as pleasurable by making it a dirty, shameful sin.

 

Yeah, that's why horseporn is so hot, because the bible says don't lay with animals. A friend of mine brought back some horse porn from Spain, and it was the hottest thing ever because, get this, it was a woman WITH A FEMALE HORSE! For those of you who haven't ever even considered the possibility that a human might eat a horse's pussy , I pity you. Looking at the cover was good enough for me. It's the shit. Unless you guys think that sort of thing is uncool. Then I hate it, and horses, and video tapes. *spit*

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

I keed, I keed. ( but that tape does exist)

[Bluesman]

Hey Holy Ghost. What's up with the ghose avatar and calling yourself the Holy Ghost? Back in my day as a "spirit filled" Xian, that would be blasphamy!  What say you?

What say Us? We say, how often do you find it to be insulting when someone calls you by your real name?

 

There is your answer, my friend.

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Well no shit. The real Holy Spirit at this forum, and I'm actually chatting with Him. So this is what it takes to get your attention. I've wanted to discuss some things with you for a while now. Where in the hell have you been?? Where were you when I was struggleing with weakness to physical lust? Where were you when I was struggleing with all kinds of issues and problems in my life? Where was the comfort that you were supposed to have provided? What about teaching me in all matters of things? Where were you??

Your total lack of involvement in my problems, menial as they may be in your eyes, has led me to the conclusion that you, God, Jesus, and the bible are all not true.

[LadyFeline]

Your total lack of involvement in my problems, menial as they may be in your eyes, has led me to the conclusion that you, God, Jesus, and the bible are all not true.

 

Oh, dear. Now God and his buddies have to disappear. Because the Hitch-hiker's Guide says so

[Amethyst]

Man! Was it hard to read the white against the yellow, and all the other completely rule-breaking designs... Uuurgh!

 

Yeah, I noticed that too. I'd consider submitting it to web pages that suck, but they don't take personal sites for obvious reasons. Many personal sites have sucky designs.

 

Seriously, take some advice from someone who's done web development professionally. Get rid of the crappy music. You probably don't have permisison to use it anyway. Most people who use music on their web sites are using it illegally, and the RIAA is going to go after them when they get bored with going after downloaders.

 

Second, get rid of the background. It's totally unneccessary and it sucks. Most websites these days don't use backgrounds. They use white backgrounds or light-colored backgrounds, coordinated with their menus and other elements. Never use light colors on light backgrounds or dark colors on dark backgrounds. Think contrast and easy on the eyes.

 

Third, take into account your terms of service: To help maintain a safe and fun environment at Xanga, you must agree not to use Xanga's products or services to: upload, post, email or otherwise transmit any Content that infringes any patent, trademark, trade secret, copyright or other proprietary rights ("Rights") of any party.

 

That would include things people here wrote that you don't have a right to repost without permission. Not only were you breaking our rules, but the rules of your web site host as well.

 

As a writer, I know that according to the Digital Millennium Copyright Act, whatever is posted on a website belongs to the person who wrote it. You don't even have to file for a copyright unless you're getting a book published professionally, in which case, the publisher will file it for you. You don't have to take my word for it, you can look it up yourself.