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OK. lessee: you ask a simple question (Did you give my child money?) and she threatens to call police.

You ask for help and get slammed. You try to give help and get insulted.

Your mom (and probably others in the family) is f***d up bad.

Get away now. Make a record of her threats, her impositions, etc. with dates and details. If she, or any others, bother you or yours again, call police, demand a restraining order, and file charges if there are any to file.

Honestly you've got the most messed up and damaging mom I know of.

You sure she's not part of the Westboro Baptist Church?

she might be!! lol jesus.gif making plans to get away, keeping record of the bs.. ph34r.png

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on a lighter note why is 6 afraid of 7?

Because 7 ate 9

 

lol 

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why are there no casinos in Africa?

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why are there no casinos in Africa?

too many cheetahs 

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what do you call a nosy pepper?

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"Sometimes you may have to play the bad guy to protect the ones you love.  That doesn't mean that you are the bad guy, merely that you have become an inconvenient obstacle to someone else's desire to disrespect and control you.

 

Put your own and your immediate family's safety and happiness first, and consider it an investment in your futures.  If necessary, go full no-contact - Block or change channels of phone and e-mail communication, and cheerfully hang up without explanation the instant someone crosses one of your boundaries.  Because when someone is abusing you, you owe them no explanation whatsoever."

 

Thank you thank you thank you!!!!  I SO needed to hear that today.

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"Sometimes you may have to play the bad guy to protect the ones you love.  That doesn't mean that you are the bad guy, merely that you have become an inconvenient obstacle to someone else's desire to disrespect and control you.

 

Put your own and your immediate family's safety and happiness first, and consider it an investment in your futures.  If necessary, go full no-contact - Block or change channels of phone and e-mail communication, and cheerfully hang up without explanation the instant someone crosses one of your boundaries.  Because when someone is abusing you, you owe them no explanation whatsoever."

 

Thank you thank you thank you!!!!  I SO needed to hear that today.

YES!  I dont have to feel guilty for not allowing the to disrespect me! or let them make me feel like I owe them an explanation! this is great! yellow.gif

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a nosy pepper get jalpeno business lol.

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OK so remember that great conversation I had with my mom? well she wanted to pick my child up for church and I said no? well guess what? A social worker is coming to my house to "investigate" a suspicion that my kids might be mistreated. social workers words. a report was filed that they might be mistreated.. wow. so this has gone far beyond sane into the realms of the twilight zone. everyone I know says I am a good parent, except for a few people in my family who don't even really know me. and they have done this to  a few of my cousins because they didn't like the fact that they were dating... I do have an attorney but this is really stressful and I need to go to the doctor because I have been having pains in my abdomen and I am also pregnant so this blows. fuck christians. fuck family. oh and my grandpa came over 2 days ago telling me to go to church and asked if I was being abused, I said no and then he said I don't have to be afraid, I said I'm not. so they are thinking that we are all being abused because I don't want to see them, they don't understand its because they are assholes.. 

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OK so remember that great conversation I had with my mom? well she wanted to pick my child up for church and I said no? well guess what? A social worker is coming to my house to "investigate" a suspicion that my kids might be mistreated. social workers words. a report was filed that they might be mistreated.. wow. so this has gone far beyond sane into the realms of the twilight zone. everyone I know says I am a good parent, except for a few people in my family who don't even really know me. and they have done this to  a few of my cousins because they didn't like the fact that they were dating... I do have an attorney but this is really stressful and I need to go to the doctor because I have been having pains in my abdomen and I am also pregnant so this blows. fuck christians. fuck family. oh and my grandpa came over 2 days ago telling me to go to church and asked if I was being abused, I said no and then he said I don't have to be afraid, I said I'm not. so they are thinking that we are all being abused because I don't want to see them, they don't understand its because they are assholes.. 

 

 

Somebody is lying about you and it isn't the innocent kind of white lie.  Somebody is trying to do you harm.  You need to protect yourself.

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I know that. I am thinking about taking my family to court for emotional distress and mental abuse. I am talking to an attorney right now. I may have to get a restraining order on them.. this is getting wayy out of hand. an they are talking to each other and not me. and saying all kinds of things about me that aren't true. and they are all ordained ministers. go figure.. I looked up the reporting procedures for calling in a social worker and they are supposed to come within 24 to 72 hours. and she came on friday and left her card.

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Yeah forget the nice approach I suggested earlier time to get them the fuck out of your life do as others have suggested and get a restraining order on your parents. She is crossing a line at this point getting social workers involved. Put it bluntly to your mom that you don't believe in god anymore tell her you don't want your kids getting involved in church and tell her that getting a social worker involved crossed a line she cant come back from hang up the phone and don't let her call you back. that's just my perspective on it but I am not one to put up with someone threatening my children even if its "family"

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I opened up 2 different cases on for family law and one for the harassment. 

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They've definitely crossed the line. Do cut off all avenues of communication between you and them. Delete any old email addresses they have for you, change your phone number to an unlisted and unpublished one, and be very selective in who you give the phone number to. If you have a cell phone, see if the company you use for it has a way to block numbers. Add their numbers to the list if they do. I know AT&T has the Smart Limits where you can block up to 30 numbers, you can't call the numbers and the numbers can't call you. It's like 5 bucks extra a month. I have it, and to me, the peace of mind is worth every single penny. As far as i'm concerned, an ounce of prevention is worth a pound of cure when it comes to jackasses like you're dealing with.

 

Good that you got the ball rolling with those two cases. Your family isn't gonna get their way with threats, and they're not gonna get away with sullying your reputation either.

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OK so remember that great conversation I had with my mom? well she wanted to pick my child up for church and I said no? well guess what? A social worker is coming to my house to "investigate" a suspicion that my kids might be mistreated. social workers words. a report was filed that they might be mistreated.. wow. so this has gone far beyond sane into the realms of the twilight zone. everyone I know says I am a good parent, except for a few people in my family who don't even really know me. and they have done this to  a few of my cousins because they didn't like the fact that they were dating... I do have an attorney but this is really stressful and I need to go to the doctor because I have been having pains in my abdomen and I am also pregnant so this blows. fuck christians. fuck family. oh and my grandpa came over 2 days ago telling me to go to church and asked if I was being abused, I said no and then he said I don't have to be afraid, I said I'm not. so they are thinking that we are all being abused because I don't want to see them, they don't understand its because they are assholes.. 

Be careful what you say in public, or write here on the internet.  Your naughty relatives may attempt to use those (these) statements against you.

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. . . the good news is I do have plans to move a few hours away from them. 

 

Oh do it!  You will like that.  I had family that was overbearing and having just enough space that they can only see me a few times per year worked out great.

 

 

I second that.

 

My parents tried to insert themselves as surrogate parents to my children and it was a constant battle for several years. It was SO much better after we moved away.

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you cant prove who said what online. its not admissible in court. not with facebook or an online forum. ( I asked and I have an attorney) I also haven't given any details about their names or my name so I have taken that into consideration, also I have said nothing but the truth to get advice and support.  SW basically said that the main reason for their call is because they felt I wasn't listening to them. at this point I cant give more details because its a case now. so I want to thank all of you for your input and advice! It has made me feel not so isolated. they try to make it seem like they love me and I'm crazy.. wow. I actually don't feel as stressed out now that I have the legal backup! =) 

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awh the peace of mind a lawyer can give =D. Sometimes just sometimes they are usefull =P

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SO I have pretty much disowned my family. I talked to my brother and told him what was going on, he got it but not really because he has been away for so long. I also told him to be careful of leaving his son around our parents ( I mean my mom told my 5 yr old I had a demon inside me) and I had to call the police and everything. But I am in the process of letting the stress go. I am looking at places to live as far as 4 hours away so no contact. My kids also understand why they can't see grandma right now.  they get it and are upset at what she is doing but they will be ok. I am just appalled at myself for letting this go on so long. at first it was for the sake of trying to have a relationship with my family ( before I left xtianity) and then it became for the sake of my kids knowing their family, but I realized that was never going to work with them spoiling my kids to the point where they are disrespectful and telling them not to listen and who knows what else? I mean she sat on my doorstep and told my kid I had a demon in me so loud my neighbors heard it.  we had it out and I am hoping to never see them again. ever. I am not sure this can ever be made right because I will never trust them. But I can definitely look to the future and be happy =)

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Well gee that sucks. sorry your parents had to take things so far. You are doing the right thing though and doing whats best for your family. I am sure the future will be much happier now though so if anything you can take away is that things are looking upwoohoo.gif

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