Ralet Posted June 21, 2013 Share Posted June 21, 2013 I dont know why i still listen to this song. Maybe because i like to scratch healing wounds or only because I still love this band. Emery- You wanted it Run you coward, you runThese words crippled my confidenceThe hymn I can't escape fromThis is over and done withThis race had made me more than weary, I am deadI created everything here that I wanted to seeSo what that your plan, to leave me out?We were all reciting messages and pushing repeatBut this world you made does it let you breathe?Does it let you feel anything but yourself?When was the last time?Does it let you breathe?Does it let you feel anything but yourself?When was the last time you saw anyone else?Whispers and echoes of love fadingThe plans you made, you wanted itThe bitter taste, you wanted itWhat god became, you wanted itBut the one thing you need, you'll never getThere was more of you and less of meYou blamed it on the chemistryCan you close your eyes and when you rest your head?It didn't have to be this way, but you wanted itThey were just calendar daysI'm sure it's all written downBut if you'll let me just askIs this how you bring the crowd to their feet?You hurt because it wasn't about you (About me?)You're always scared the floor is gonna give way (I call the shots!)We could end this, we could end this (Don't you ever tell me what I've got)Whispers and echoes of love fadingThe plans you made, you wanted itThe bitter taste, you wanted itWhat god became, you wanted itBut the one thing you need, you'll never getThere was more of you and less of meYou blamed it on the chemistryCan you close your eyes and when you rest your head?It didn't have to be this way, but you wanted itI wanted!I wanted!I wanted!I wanted this!You made it such a lonely worldSuch a very lonely worldYou bent the answers into questionsYou let the voice go unheardAnd you couldn't trust yourselfCause what if everything you feltMeant this was not yours aloneEvery single wordEvery single little word that was saidAnd all the simple fearsAnd all the nights that you cried in your bedHoping I was there but you told yourselfYou're old and aloneBut you were never the widowYou left on your ownI was washed in the bloodI was born of a spirit but I drownedWhen you found me out thereRejoice!Rejoice the old King is dead!Long live the new king!I am the new King!Whispers and echoes of love fadingThe plans you made, you wanted itThe bitter taste, you wanted itWhat god became, you wanted itBut the one thing you need, you'll never getThere was more of you and less of meYou blamed it on the chemistryCan you close your eyes and when you rest your head?It didn't have to be this way, but you wanted it I know it is just a fucking song made by a stupid christian band, but it still triggers something inside of me. I know there is no christian god, I do not believe in him, but how can i stop this feeling of missing out on something? I feel so incomplete and lost without faith and I am so angry at myself for this foolish feelings. It seems like my brain and my feelings aren't connected. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
◊ crazyguy123 ◊ Posted June 21, 2013 Share Posted June 21, 2013 Is this supposed to be a song about how sad the Christian god is when people stop believing in him? If that is the case, this song was probably meant to be one big guilt-trip. 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Ralet Posted June 21, 2013 Author Share Posted June 21, 2013 jup. and it pisses me off that it still works for me. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
◊ crazyguy123 ◊ Posted June 21, 2013 Share Posted June 21, 2013 jup. and it pisses me off that it still works for me. Well, if it works, then all you've got to do is remember this: "If some god wanted me in my life, my relationship with him wouldn't have been so one-sided and besides, I wouldn't want to be in a relationship with a narcissist anyway. That's a toxic personality I don't need to be stuck with!" 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ExXex Posted June 21, 2013 Share Posted June 21, 2013 Maybe you just need some songs to guilt trip you the other way! Here's a start; http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=hk41Gbjljfo Dear God don't know if you noticed butYour name is on a lot of quotes in this bookAnd us crazy humans wrote it, you should take a lookAnd all the people that you made in your imageStill believing that junk is trueWell I know it ain't, and so do youDear GodI can't believe inI don't believeI won't believe in heaven or hellNo saints, no sinners, no devil as wellNo pearly gates, no thorny crownYou're always letting us humans downThe wars you bring, the babes you drownThose lost at sea and never foundAnd it's the same the whole world 'roundThe hurt I see helps to compoundThe Father, Son and Holy GhostIs just somebody's unholy hoaxAnd if you're up there you'll perceiveThat my heart's here upon my sleeveIf there's one thing I don't believe inIt's you Or maybe http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=uaGXVU2CbNs God wants peaceGod wants warGod wants famineGod wants chain storesWhat God wants God gets And then of course there's always Slayer 5 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
DarthKoopa Posted June 22, 2013 Share Posted June 22, 2013 When I go to church with my wife (she believes) I rewrite all the songs in my head. It's fun! I usually make them about how god was never there at all. Sometimes I turn them into songs praising my dark lord Cthulhu! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
DarthKoopa Posted June 22, 2013 Share Posted June 22, 2013 You could sneak in a small device with YOUR FAVORITE TUNES and have ear buds in your ears and ignore what is being preached or sung. I could but I want to hear their ignorant poison so I can't point it out to my wife. There is still hope for her. At the very least she already hates most of christian culture. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
mymistake Posted June 22, 2013 Share Posted June 22, 2013 I prescribe some good, old-fashioned rock and roll. 4 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ToHellWithMe Posted June 22, 2013 Share Posted June 22, 2013 As an ex-christian you're not supposed to listen to that kind of garbage. Shame on you! Goes against the creed. Start looking into the church-burning norwegian bands. That should set you back on the right path. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
traveller2 Posted June 24, 2013 Share Posted June 24, 2013 I prescribe some good, old-fashioned rock and roll. Yes that's what i thought too! or anything that's your genre that makes you feel good. i actually hated christian music as a christian and even tried to 'like' it and conform but it seemed too feminine and wishy washy.However it was actually a good secular song by 'Disturbed' that first got thru my 'christian amour' and began my real deconversion by connecting me with my true feelings and self.Hooray for evil secular bands! 2 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ExXex Posted June 24, 2013 Share Posted June 24, 2013 I remember when my home church's pastor's wife asked me what music I liked, I floundered vaguely a bit so she prompted 'any Christian bands?'. Felt like such a christian failure haha. I always felt a bit conflicted between my love of sweary confrontational shouty music and my beliefs. I remember when my dad found my Wumpscut (don't particularly like them but I guess with titles like 'Christfuck' they stood out) MP3s, oh the shaaame. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Endemoniada Posted June 25, 2013 Share Posted June 25, 2013 Maybe you just need some songs to guilt trip you the other way! Here's a start; http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=hk41Gbjljfo Dear God don't know if you noticed but Your name is on a lot of quotes in this book And us crazy humans wrote it, you should take a look And all the people that you made in your image Still believing that junk is true Well I know it ain't, and so do you Dear God I can't believe in I don't believe I won't believe in heaven or hell No saints, no sinners, no devil as well No pearly gates, no thorny crown You're always letting us humans down The wars you bring, the babes you drown Those lost at sea and never found And it's the same the whole world 'round The hurt I see helps to compound The Father, Son and Holy Ghost Is just somebody's unholy hoax And if you're up there you'll perceive That my heart's here upon my sleeve If there's one thing I don't believe in It's you Or maybe http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=uaGXVU2CbNs God wants peace God wants war God wants famine God wants chain stores What God wants God gets And then of course there's always Slayer And Nine Inch Nails: http://www.youtube.com/watch?feature=player_detailpage&v=BB-W7jIeobU Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
◊ crazyguy123 ◊ Posted June 26, 2013 Share Posted June 26, 2013 This is a song I really liked as a believer (It may be a guilt trip, so anyone who thinks the song might have that affect on them should not listen): http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Ic8SZbRbxvA I have a feeling it is probably another guilt-trip song, since when I heard it, I interpreted it as "God" feeling like nails are being driven through his soul when believers left him for whatever reason. I was quite a fan of Demon Hunter, once, but I kind of fell away from listening to the band after I came to the conclusion that "God" was a pretty messed up character. Lol, when I saw some of the comments to the music video, it made me want to debate religion, but I know that if I did, especially in the comment section of a religious band, I might as well be poking a needle in my finger and then dipping it into a fish tank filled with piranha. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Fernweh Posted June 26, 2013 Share Posted June 26, 2013 Your German right? Try this one. Let the sunrise on a new chapter of your life and contemplate the world around without the constraints of religious guilt. Enjoy your neue Freiheit! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
stryper Posted June 26, 2013 Share Posted June 26, 2013 I still like this one. http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=2WlRt8z5bHA Though I am finding it more and more irritating. I am not broken. I don't need an outside force to fix me. There is no disease of self. etc etc etc. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
greylight Posted June 27, 2013 Share Posted June 27, 2013 Can't think of a specific song right now that could help. But, here's a something I do for myself if I end up listening to a band that I know is xian.... i still have a lot of them on my itunes and enjoy listening to them sometimes. I replace the subject matter that could be about god to something that is applicable to myself. So I might think, wow these lyrics really describe how I felt during my deconversion, but then how I found myself again and created meaning for myself. It might be harder to do if the lyrics specifically say 'jesus' or 'god' though, but it might help you out. 2 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
swdee Posted June 28, 2013 Share Posted June 28, 2013 To the op, you have thrown the baby out with the bathwater when you now don't believe in God at all. Yes the christian God is shit, but that's just their idea of God that's shit, doesn't mean that there is no God/creator. You say you know there is no God/creator, but no one knows that really. It makes a lot more sense to me that the universe had a cause and that there is an intelligence behind everything. It's a fundamental mistake people make, the church/christians annoy them so they discard everything including a God/creator. I actually feel like "piggy in the middle" where I agree with christians idea of a creator but dislike their other teachings, but also agree with atheists attack on christianity but dislike their lack of belief in a creator. You say you now feel lost and incomplete without faith in God, well that's why. There can be a love and peace that comes from God's spirit, and you've turned your back on it. The most I feel closest to God that is when I'm walking in nature. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
greylight Posted June 28, 2013 Share Posted June 28, 2013 How about the OP can process their beliefs in their own time? They don't have to believe anything, and how do you know that's why they are feeling the way they are now? Just because a certain belief works for you doesn't mean it works for everyone. Maybe it involves a god, maybe it doesn't. Saying things like "you've thrown away the baby with the bath water", isn't helpful or constructive. I'm not sure if you are trying to help, but it came across as rude and judgmental. Respect a person's process as they go through a struggle, and maybe try rephrasing your opinion in a different way. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
swdee Posted June 28, 2013 Share Posted June 28, 2013 Saying things like "you've thrown away the baby with the bath water", isn't helpful or constructive. I just meant that it's a real shame that because someone is pissed off with christianity and christians the whole lot goes when it doesn't have to. That is being constructive. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Ralet Posted June 28, 2013 Author Share Posted June 28, 2013 I just said that I know there is no christian god, meaning how he is presented in the bible. I don't know if there are gods or other spiritual beings but actually I don't care if they exist. He/She/They don't communicated clearly with use and do affect our lives so why should I waste my time looking for them? You say you now feel lost and incomplete without faith in God, well that's why. There can be a love and peace that comes from God's spirit, and you've turned your back on it. The most I feel closest to God that is when I'm walking in nature. Which God? How do you know that it is God that you feel close to? May you connect with ghosts, aliens or the feelings are given by yourself via a form of mediation. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
swdee Posted June 28, 2013 Share Posted June 28, 2013 Which God? How do you know that it is God that you feel close to? May you connect with ghosts, aliens or the feelings are given by yourself via a form of mediation. I don't accept any particular religious idea of God, especially not the christian idea, just an abstract idea of a creator. I understand what you're saying but I'm just talking from personal experience, that feelings of love etc, how can that just be some chemicals? I really think that there has to be more than the physical. Maybe you feel lost without this? I'm not saying it is but maybe? I do wish you all the best Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Ralet Posted June 28, 2013 Author Share Posted June 28, 2013 It is good if it works for you,swdee, but i can't settle for vague spirituality. I don't see the point in believing in a loving god that cant or do not want to help or guide me. Of course, I miss the feeling of being loved and that someone created me the way I am, but replacing it with a belief that has no foundation and no influence of my actual life, seems like a waste of time for me. I can find joy in nature, watching clouds,seeing children play and the little things in everyday life without making up a concept of a god/divine love/ creator. @all: thanks for your posts and music suggestions Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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