I hate HATE her!!!

[Anushka]

I hope I can vent here!! I haven't shared this with anyone.. There is this girl in my class who is pissing me off for months.. She is not a Christian, follows a different religion. 

I met her last year on a train- I introduced myself and started talking to her as I wanted to make new friends and I was feeling lonely. 

She seemed alright. We happened to be in the same classes. 

On the same day I met her on the train, we met another girl in class.  This other girl seemed sweet. Really sweet. The train girl was nice to me UNTIL this other girl came along. The train girl then started treating me like she doesn't want to be around me. Felt awkward with both of them. 

I think it was 2 days later, I met train girl on the train station, I went and spoke to her. I was really friendly. But, bitch was acting stuck-up. Wouldn't smile properly at me. I asked her if she knew where the class the next day was taking place as I didn't know which room to go to. She shook her head saying no. Didn't talk to me at all that day. And I knew she knew where the class was.

Anyway, I asked someone else and found out.

Since then, I started giving her the silent treatment. Felt hurt she would treat me like dirt for no reason. 

My bad luck- this cow sat on the same table as I was sitting in class.. Then another cow came in who became Train girl's friend.. And the new cow would only talk to me when she needed something- like the cow number 2 would not open my whatsapp messages which were really my replies to her messages if she didn't have anything to ask me or if my previous replies had already answered her questions.. Do you get it?

Anyway this year the TRAIN cow started being really nice to me a couple of times, I ignored it.. The last time she was nice to me I suddenly felt guilty for giving her the silent treatment. I decided to forgive her.

The next time I saw her on the train station, I went and spoke to her, she was alright, but I got the feeling from her behaviour that she was acting stuck-up again. You know why I got that feeling? The day before when she was extra nice to me- she initiated the conversation and acted really wonderful.

But, this day it was like she won in her mind- you know she got me to stop the silent treatment!

God, I hate her!

Don't tell me off for the language in my post! Cos I am fed up of meeting fucked up friends. Wait, let me count- this bitch is the 12th cow who is fucking up my head!!! 

Women fucked up my life... Actually there are more than 12, she is the 12th in my age range..

P.S. I am not a lesbian and if you are a man, you are lucky you weren't born as a woman. THIS is a woman's world!!! 

I actually feel sad, why do I keep meeting awful people? 

I also happen to sit on the same table as these 2 girls and I feel suffocated! I cannot move to a different table as I am short-sighted and if I move, I cannot see the board properly!! 

And sometimes I think if I do move to a different table, TRAIN cow will take revenge or something. Could be my overactive imagination!!!!

-Sad and lonely.

[sdelsolray]

Why waste time fretting about someone like that?

[midniterider]

If any of the involved parties are teenagers you'll just have to wait it out a few years. People are typically an emotional disaster between 13 and  25.

[Anushka]

1 hour ago, midniterider said:

If any of the involved parties are teenagers you'll just have to wait it out a few years. People are typically an emotional disaster between 13 and  25.

 both those girls are 23 and I am 28.. :-D

[Anushka]

2 hours ago, sdelsolray said:

Why waste time fretting about someone like that?

 

I think it is bothering me so much  cos she and I see each other twice every week. 

[midniterider]

2 minutes ago, Anushka said:

 both those girls are 23 and I am 28.. :-D

 

Oh , ok then. I used to work with someone who seemed a bit like train cow. Up one day, down the next. Maybe needed meds?

 

....

 

 

"I also happen to sit on the same table as these 2 girls and I feel suffocated!"

 

So, have you considered sitting in a chair instead of on the table? (haha) Maybe that's what's pissing them off. :)))

[Anushka]

5 hours ago, midniterider said:

 

Oh , ok then. I used to work with someone who seemed a bit like train cow. Up one day, down the next. Maybe needed meds?

 

....

 

 

"I also happen to sit on the same table as these 2 girls and I feel suffocated!"

 

So, have you considered sitting in a chair instead of on the table? (haha) Maybe that's what's pissing them off. :)))

 

Lol!!! No more making friends on public transport, unless it is a hot guy 

[sdelsolray]

5 hours ago, Anushka said:

 

I think it is bothering me so much  cos she and I see each other twice every week. 

 

So, the number of times you see this person defines whether you are bothered?

 

Please study the term and subject called codependency.

[pantheory]

On 4/3/2018 at 7:00 PM, Anushka said:

I hope I can vent here!! I haven't shared this with anyone.. There is this girl in my class who is pissing me off for months.. She is not a Christian, follows a different religion. 

I met her last year on a train- I introduced myself and started talking to her as I wanted to make new friends and I was feeling lonely. 

She seemed alright. We happened to be in the same classes. 

On the same day I met her on the train, we met another girl in class.  This other girl seemed sweet. Really sweet. The train girl was nice to me UNTIL this other girl came along. The train girl then started treating me like she doesn't want to be around me. Felt awkward with both of them. 

I think it was 2 days later, I met train girl on the train station, I went and spoke to her. I was really friendly. But, bitch was acting stuck-up. Wouldn't smile properly at me. I asked her if she knew where the class the next day was taking place as I didn't know which room to go to. She shook her head saying no. Didn't talk to me at all that day. And I knew she knew where the class was.

Anyway, I asked someone else and found out.

Since then, I started giving her the silent treatment. Felt hurt she would treat me like dirt for no reason. 

My bad luck- this cow sat on the same table as I was sitting in class.. Then another cow came in who became Train girl's friend.. And the new cow would only talk to me when she needed something- like the cow number 2 would not open my whatsapp messages which were really my replies to her messages if she didn't have anything to ask me or if my previous replies had already answered her questions.. Do you get it?

Anyway this year the TRAIN cow started being really nice to me a couple of times, I ignored it.. The last time she was nice to me I suddenly felt guilty for giving her the silent treatment. I decided to forgive her.

The next time I saw her on the train station, I went and spoke to her, she was alright, but I got the feeling from her behaviour that she was acting stuck-up again. You know why I got that feeling? The day before when she was extra nice to me- she initiated the conversation and acted really wonderful.

But, this day it was like she won in her mind- you know she got me to stop the silent treatment!

God, I hate her!

Don't tell me off for the language in my post! Cos I am fed up of meeting fucked up friends. Wait, let me count- this bitch is the 12th cow who is fucking up my head!!! 

Women fucked up my life... Actually there are more than 12, she is the 12th in my age range..

P.S. I am not a lesbian and if you are a man, you are lucky you weren't born as a woman. THIS is a woman's world!!! 

I actually feel sad, why do I keep meeting awful people? 

I also happen to sit on the same table as these 2 girls and I feel suffocated! I cannot move to a different table as I am short-sighted and if I move, I cannot see the board properly!! 

And sometimes I think if I do move to a different table, TRAIN cow will take revenge or something. Could be my overactive imagination!!!!

-Sad and lonely.

 

Anushka, I think you get too emotionally involved in trivial encounters. If you don't feel comfortable with someone just move on. When someone is friendly toward you, in time it may develop into a friendship, if not move on to others who appreciate your friendship efforts.  I'm sure you have better things to do than fret over trivialities.  Work to make a better life for yourself; befriend people who reciprocate your friendship efforts, and sometimes help those that need and appreciate your friendliness. Such goodwill, in time, will likely shorten your own path to happiness and lead to many happy relationships.

[☆ DarkBishop ☆]

get glasses if your short sighted and move tables. problem solved. 

 

And dont get hung up on stuck up bitches. They aren't worth the time or effort that you are putting to it. When my kids come to me with issues like this I usually tell them to brush it off and dont worry about it. The more they know that something bothers you the more they will do it. people are just fucked up that way. 

 

DB