prochristian Posted July 17, 2010 Share Posted July 17, 2010 I was shown, how almost every detail I can recall from christian, in one or more amount is found in tons of other religions and histories. is that a reason to leave it? that is called verification. try writing something like http://www.investigate islam.com/x_muslim.htm that would console the ex-christians Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
prochristian Posted July 17, 2010 Author Share Posted July 17, 2010 The two props that got kicked out from under my traditional, "orthodox" Christian faith, which caused it to collapse: 1. After struggling with my sexuality for years and feeling so incredibly guilty and shameful about it, I realized that practically all Christians are as "hypocritical" as I was--which led me to the realization that, in a sense, none of us is hypocritical. Human sexuality is the way it is, and you can't deny it, even if you believe something else to be true. A lot of Christians are still suffering because they genuinely believe human nature is, or at least can be, something other than what it is. I feel for them. Others are true hypocrites, trying to repress their "flocks," while at the same time secretly living a natural sex life--and even using modern methods to escape the consequences of their sex lives. (I'm thinking especially of anti-choice Christians who have abortions themselves when they don't want to bring a child to term.) When I realized that what traditional Christianity teaches about sex is wrong and that so much hypocrisy exists in the church, I accepted myself and my sexuality. Then I got to work on crafting a spiritual framework which accepts real human sexuality. 2. After point #1 above, I was just a really liberal Christian. Then I heard about Higher Criticism and other modern approaches to the Bible. I suddenly realized I had been reading the Bible through a pair of spectacles which I didn't realize were even perched on my nose. When those "spectacles" fell off, I couldn't take the Bible seriously any more. you wrote 'feeling so incredibly guilty and shameful about it,' yet as a christian you were taught that 'the debt is paid' it even says so in the how to save a budhist by emphasizing no more guilt. you wrote 'trying to repress their "flocks," while at the same time secretly living a natural sex life' if you mean a catholic priest catholics encourage marraige as a required sacrament which includes sex. if you mean noncathilic then the leader marries not repress. you wrote 'I heard about Higher Criticism' yet this is so different than the testimony of http://www.investigate islam.com/x_muslim.htm maybe writing something like that will console the ex-christians but this is so weak Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Valk0010 Posted July 17, 2010 Share Posted July 17, 2010 For those that don't know, prochristian has made his debut in this thread http://www.ex-christian.net/index.php?/topic/38295-i-am-no-longer-a-believer-because/page__pid__583463__st__40#entry583463 He seems to think forum rules, are some sort of arguement, so I figured I would point him in the direction where arguing is allowed, by christians. Welp Prove Christianity in anyway you like. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Net Eng Posted July 17, 2010 Share Posted July 17, 2010 I was shown, how almost every detail I can recall from christian, in one or more amount is found in tons of other religions and histories. is that a reason to leave it? that is called verification. try writing something like http://www.investigate islam.com/x_muslim.htm that would console the ex-christians Here's the above link in usable format (in English): www.investigateislam.com Quite frankly I find this site hilarious. This is like a pro-Thor site trying to disprove that Zeus exists. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Super Moderator florduh Posted July 17, 2010 Super Moderator Share Posted July 17, 2010 I guess Christianity is sort of a step up from the abyss of Islam. At least currently, Christians aren't as murderous and repressive. Still, choosing between horse shit and dog shit doesn't make for much of a menu. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
par4dcourse Posted July 17, 2010 Share Posted July 17, 2010 From the site: For sure we don't hate Muslims. As Christians the Lord Christ has ordered us to love everyone even the ones who hate us. In the same time we have a duty to fight Satan and expose his lies and Islam is one of the biggest ,fattest lies Satan ever made. Mr. Pot, meet Mr. Kettle The site is really funny. Like a bunch of puffed-up 3rd graders about to make war on the "enemy." Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Super Moderator buffettphan Posted July 17, 2010 Super Moderator Share Posted July 17, 2010 I'm showing my age here, but every time I hear one of those "my god's better than your god" statements, I can't help but think of the old Ken-L Ration jingle: http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=pSZ9zma-wYI Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Mriana Posted July 17, 2010 Share Posted July 17, 2010 I was shown, how almost every detail I can recall from christian, in one or more amount is found in tons of other religions and histories. is that a reason to leave it? that is called verification. Yes it is a reason to leave. I just goes to show that Xianity is rewritten myth. Now why a person would buy into mythology, I have no clue. Also, how can one stay if they can't believe it anymore? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
prochristian Posted July 19, 2010 Author Share Posted July 19, 2010 The two props that got kicked out from under my traditional, "orthodox" Christian faith, which caused it to collapse: 1. After struggling with my sexuality for years and feeling so incredibly guilty and shameful about it, I realized that practically all Christians are as "hypocritical" as I was--which led me to the realization that, in a sense, none of us is hypocritical. Human sexuality is the way it is, and you can't deny it, even if you believe something else to be true. A lot of Christians are still suffering because they genuinely believe human nature is, or at least can be, something other than what it is. I feel for them. Others are true hypocrites, trying to repress their "flocks," while at the same time secretly living a natural sex life--and even using modern methods to escape the consequences of their sex lives. (I'm thinking especially of anti-choice Christians who have abortions themselves when they don't want to bring a child to term.) When I realized that what traditional Christianity teaches about sex is wrong and that so much hypocrisy exists in the church, I accepted myself and my sexuality. Then I got to work on crafting a spiritual framework which accepts real human sexuality. 2. After point #1 above, I was just a really liberal Christian. Then I heard about Higher Criticism and other modern approaches to the Bible. I suddenly realized I had been reading the Bible through a pair of spectacles which I didn't realize were even perched on my nose. When those "spectacles" fell off, I couldn't take the Bible seriously any more. you wrote 'feeling so incredibly guilty and shameful about it,' yet as a christian you were taught that 'the debt is paid' it even says so in the how to save a budhist by emphasizing no more guilt. you wrote 'trying to repress their "flocks," while at the same time secretly living a natural sex life' if you mean a catholic priest catholics encourage marraige as a required sacrament which includes sex. if you mean noncathilic then the leader marries not repress. you wrote 'I heard about Higher Criticism' yet this is so different than the testimony of http://www.investigate islam.com/x_muslim.htm maybe writing something like that will console the ex-christians but this is so weak reply the profile pic I recieved is cute! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
prochristian Posted July 19, 2010 Author Share Posted July 19, 2010 For those that don't know, prochristian has made his debut in this thread http://www.ex-christ..._40#entry583463 He seems to think forum rules, are some sort of arguement, so I figured I would point him in the direction where arguing is allowed, by christians. Welp Prove Christianity in anyway you like. reply to 'Prove Christianity in anyway you like.' a. I am not here to prove. b. I am here to see if those who left christianity had strong arguments... or not and if not to ask them to add stronger arguments. but it seems my posts were too complex. for exmple I bet noone here even heard of the bombardier beetle yet? could that have evolved in phases? the athiest response is 'it MUST have!' so again that is not the point c. the point is to see why people leave and I see they leave because they 'think the bible is like cinderella' that is so lame d. IF the purpose of this forum is to be supportive of x-x, then someone should offer strong arguments. but saying 'jesus did not exist because the text of josephus MUST have been corrupted by additions' is simply weak. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
prochristian Posted July 19, 2010 Author Share Posted July 19, 2010 I was shown, how almost every detail I can recall from christian, in one or more amount is found in tons of other religions and histories. is that a reason to leave it? that is called verification. Yes it is a reason to leave. I just goes to show that Xianity is rewritten myth. Now why a person would buy into mythology, I have no clue. Also, how can one stay if they can't believe it anymore? Dear 'happy heretical infidel' would you leave other verified claims like which ships carried the settlers to the americas? after all you did not see that ship? if you were a judge and the witnesses had 'different' versions would you say both must be false witnesses and ignore the entire testimony as if there were no witnesses at all? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Ouroboros Posted July 19, 2010 Share Posted July 19, 2010 for exmple I bet noone here even heard of the bombardier beetle yet? could that have evolved in phases? the athiest response is 'it MUST have!' so again that is not the point The evolutionary aspects of the bombardier beetle: http://www.talkorigins.org/faqs/bombardier.html Challenge back to you: explain the deformed gene that causes C-deficiency in humans and chimpanzees within the context of design theory. (Background: http://www.talkorigins.org/faqs/comdesc/section2.html#mol_vestiges) d. IF the purpose of this forum is to be supportive of x-x, then someone should offer strong arguments. ??? Why? Support is what support is, not reasons to why someone need the support, or why they left. Does a hospital have to have the culprit of the arson case to treat a burn victim? but saying 'jesus did not exist because the text of josephus MUST have been corrupted by additions' is simply weak. Agree. How about that God never speaks, never shows up, or that the teachings of the Bible doesn't work? And why is one God more plausible than another God? What are your belief about Allah or Zeus? Why don't they exist? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Shyone Posted July 19, 2010 Share Posted July 19, 2010 For those that don't know, prochristian has made his debut in this thread http://www.ex-christ..._40#entry583463 He seems to think forum rules, are some sort of arguement, so I figured I would point him in the direction where arguing is allowed, by christians. Welp Prove Christianity in anyway you like. reply to 'Prove Christianity in anyway you like.' a. I am not here to prove. b. I am here to see if those who left christianity had strong arguments... or not and if not to ask them to add stronger arguments. but it seems my posts were too complex. for exmple I bet noone here even heard of the bombardier beetle yet? could that have evolved in phases? the athiest response is 'it MUST have!' so again that is not the point c. the point is to see why people leave and I see they leave because they 'think the bible is like cinderella' that is so lame d. IF the purpose of this forum is to be supportive of x-x, then someone should offer strong arguments. but saying 'jesus did not exist because the text of josephus MUST have been corrupted by additions' is simply weak. First, the beetle. http://www.talkorigins.org/faqs/bombardier.html And here's a shorter and simplified version of the first article: http://www.talkorigins.org/indexcc/CB/CB310.html Don't you get it? It's not about this beetle or that enzyme or some other feature of anatomy. All life is evolved from some earlier life after the earth was cool enough to sustain the first chemical reactions that involved self-reproducing hydrocarbons. We aren't ex-christians because of beetles or even evolution specifically (although the fact of evolution and the attempt to "cover up the fossils" by creationists is a hoot!). In fact, for each it's different. Most could care less about Josephus, Tacitus or Suetonius. I find that stuff interesting, but it had nothing to do with deconversion. Perhaps you should focus on the testimonial section. Read only. comment here. Tell us why our reasons are incomplete and why christianity is true. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
prochristian Posted July 19, 2010 Author Share Posted July 19, 2010 I'm showing my age here, but every time I hear one of those "my god's better than your god" statements, I can't help but think of the old Ken-L Ration jingle: http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=pSZ9zma-wYI I am not cynical when I say it is an amusing comparison but i am not using it to debate muslims since this site is not islam. I did notice that! the investigate islam site is an example of strong arguments. is there any such argument against christianity and if not is anyone going to offer one? noone here has yet supplied such an rgument! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Mriana Posted July 19, 2010 Share Posted July 19, 2010 Dear 'happy heretical infidel' would you leave other verified claims like which ships carried the settlers to the americas? after all you did not see that ship? if you were a judge and the witnesses had 'different' versions would you say both must be false witnesses and ignore the entire testimony as if there were no witnesses at all? There is no need to leave such claims about the settlers to the Americas, because there is historical evidence for them- plenty of historical evidence. I happen to be related to the pilgrims and to the first Prescotts. All of which is far better documented in history than anything in your story book. There is NO historical evidence for what is in the Bile. The gospels are NOT eyewitness accounts either, so I don't have a clue what you are talking about concerning a judge and different accounts. You may enjoy reading this: http://www.americanhumanist.org/who_we_are/about_humanism/Some_Reasons_Why_Humanists_Reject_the_Bible Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
prochristian Posted July 19, 2010 Author Share Posted July 19, 2010 From the site: For sure we don't hate Muslims. As Christians the Lord Christ has ordered us to love everyone even the ones who hate us. In the same time we have a duty to fight Satan and expose his lies and Islam is one of the biggest ,fattest lies Satan ever made. Mr. Pot, meet Mr. Kettle The site is really funny. Like a bunch of puffed-up 3rd graders about to make war on the "enemy." I liked your placebo quote... because often placebos work! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
prochristian Posted July 19, 2010 Author Share Posted July 19, 2010 for exmple I bet noone here even heard of the bombardier beetle yet? could that have evolved in phases? the athiest response is 'it MUST have!' so again that is not the point The evolutionary aspects of the bombardier beetle: http://www.talkorigi...bombardier.html Challenge back to you: explain the deformed gene that causes C-deficiency in humans and chimpanzees within the context of design theory. (Background: http://www.talkorigi...l#mol_vestiges) d. IF the purpose of this forum is to be supportive of x-x, then someone should offer strong arguments. ??? Why? Support is what support is, not reasons to why someone need the support, or why they left. Does a hospital have to have the culprit of the arson case to treat a burn victim? but saying 'jesus did not exist because the text of josephus MUST have been corrupted by additions' is simply weak. Agree. How about that God never speaks, never shows up, or that the teachings of the Bible doesn't work? And why is one God more plausible than another God? What are your belief about Allah or Zeus? Why don't they exist? reply thanx for the site it says 'seriously challenges the concept of design' the site focusses on 'design' if however step 15 was last as the site claims then the beetle would have trouble aiming and get eaten before the fifteenth mutation. to your challenge back 'design' is not the issue. 'only design' would be exclusive but bad mutations are possible [almost all mutations are bad] and not excluded by claiming design in the improvements. last: about why? why should there be a strong argument because this site is for people who left xianity and have doubts and seeing a strong argument like 'a woman is half the value of the man' will make them feel better for not being part of the evil. but a lame argument does not console does it? nuf for one day see you all next week. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
prochristian Posted July 19, 2010 Author Share Posted July 19, 2010 Dear 'happy heretical infidel' would you leave other verified claims like which ships carried the settlers to the americas? after all you did not see that ship? if you were a judge and the witnesses had 'different' versions would you say both must be false witnesses and ignore the entire testimony as if there were no witnesses at all? There is no need to leave such claims about the settlers to the Americas, because there is historical evidence for them- plenty of historical evidence. I happen to be related to the pilgrims and to the first Prescotts. All of which is far better documented in history than anything in your story book. There is NO historical evidence for what is in the Bile. The gospels are NOT eyewitness accounts either, so I don't have a clue what you are talking about concerning a judge and different accounts. You may enjoy reading this: http://www.americanh...eject_the_Bible re[ly thanx i will reply next week Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
bdp Posted July 19, 2010 Share Posted July 19, 2010 it seems my posts were too complex. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
bdp Posted July 19, 2010 Share Posted July 19, 2010 about why? why should there be a strong argument because this site is for people who left xianity and have doubts and seeing a strong argument like 'a woman is half the value of the man' will make them feel better for not being part of the evil. Would you ask your psychiatrist to translate this into English please? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Midnight-mindwanderings Posted July 19, 2010 Share Posted July 19, 2010 Ok so first off, you are coming off as a complete asshole. I don't know if you know that or care, but you should know. Of course our experiences and reasons for leaving are not impressive to you. If you had come across a reason you found good enough for leaving you would have left! Yet to Discount the experiences, knowledge and reasons of other people as "lame" is extremely condescending and insulting. The christian concept of god does not make sense, their concept of reality does not make sense, their concept of morality does not make sense, their book does not make sense. I guess it does to you because safely within the worldview the circular logic seems sound. But if you want to know why we left, the fact that it makes no sense sums it up well. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Super Moderator florduh Posted July 19, 2010 Super Moderator Share Posted July 19, 2010 I am here to see if those who left christianity had strong arguments... or notand if not to ask them to add stronger arguments. but it seems my posts were too complex. You don't need any arguments at all to not be a Christian. The Christians need an argument to get and keep you in their religion. Religions make extraordinary claims and so must provide evidence that their claims are true. None of them do. If you claim flying monkeys exist it is up to you to prove it. Neither I nor anyone else can prove that things don't exist. I know there is no Santa Claus, but I can't actually prove it beyond the fact that Santa's magical nature is beyond any known reality and defies the laws of physics. You may claim that Jehovah, Allah, Jesus, Lucifer, reincarnation, crystal power, ghosts, demons and angels are for real, but you're wasting time for both of us if you have no proof for these extraordinary claims. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Ouroboros Posted July 19, 2010 Share Posted July 19, 2010 reply thanx for the site it says 'seriously challenges the concept of design' the site focusses on 'design' By showing how it could evolve. if however step 15 was last as the site claims then the beetle would have trouble aiming and get eaten before the fifteenth mutation. Your lack of understanding evolution is showing. to your challenge back 'design' is not the issue. 'only design' would be exclusive but bad mutations are possible [almost all mutations are bad] and not excluded by claiming design in the improvements. What are the chances that two separate mutations (bad or otherwise) are exactly identical, in two different species? Enormous. Only explanation: the species are related. Still, you didn't answer the challenge. I gave you an article that responded to your challenge, but you haven't explained the shared gene mutation between humans and chimpanzees. last: about why? why should there be a strong argument because this site is for people who left xianity and have doubts and seeing a strong argument like 'a woman is half the value of the man' will make them feel better for not being part of the evil. but a lame argument does not console does it? nuf for one day see you all next week. ??? Not sure what you're getting at. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Ouroboros Posted July 19, 2010 Share Posted July 19, 2010 about why? why should there be a strong argument because this site is for people who left xianity and have doubts and seeing a strong argument like 'a woman is half the value of the man' will make them feel better for not being part of the evil. Would you ask your psychiatrist to translate this into English please? He's a bit confusing. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Mriana Posted July 20, 2010 Share Posted July 20, 2010 Dear 'happy heretical infidel' would you leave other verified claims like which ships carried the settlers to the americas? after all you did not see that ship? if you were a judge and the witnesses had 'different' versions would you say both must be false witnesses and ignore the entire testimony as if there were no witnesses at all? There is no need to leave such claims about the settlers to the Americas, because there is historical evidence for them- plenty of historical evidence. I happen to be related to the pilgrims and to the first Prescotts. All of which is far better documented in history than anything in your story book. There is NO historical evidence for what is in the Bile. The gospels are NOT eyewitness accounts either, so I don't have a clue what you are talking about concerning a judge and different accounts. You may enjoy reading this: http://www.americanh...eject_the_Bible re[ly thanx i will reply next week Next week? So you haven't done any study on this or you have to go ask your preacher for a canned answer? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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