scotter Posted August 28, 2005 Share Posted August 28, 2005 For a couple in a relationship, quarrels happen and people make up. It may be part of a relationship, although it is up to you to define it as sugar or spice. Say the girlfriend during the regular times that they are together, she talks about, on her initiative, her past relationships, her mistakes on other people, her flaws and the consequences. They may be bad things, they may be things that people may not normally agree to, but the way I see is that she revealed her own feelings, expressions on her own initiative, she should not be punished for it. If quarrels have to happen, for the “boyfriend” who during the quarrel, uses her own past talks about herself to attack her back, that is very low. During a quarrel people don’t know what they are doing. Anger and pride override rationality and caring. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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