Isn't it a little presumptuous to assume I'm not a christian?

[☆ moxieflux66 ☆]

If it's true than 'one and done' salvation is true, isn't this question a bit relevant? If I said I'm really a christian but don't attend church (as I heard at least one member here has made known), would you need to save my soul and argue me back into it? What if I'm too embarrassed to admit it given the sorry state of christianity today? What if I only say it to get christians off my back? 

 

I say it's at best arrogant to assume you know the 'state' of anyone's spiritual life, much less assume your flavor of christianity is the bestest and most truest take on it.