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    • Welcome to the forum, @LostinParis.   And welcome to the Unequally Yoked Club! Not a club one usually WANTS to belong to but...at least we HAVE one, dammit!   Your situation is rough but not uncommon and, yes, you can stay married, but things will likely be different. The most <sarc> pleasant </sarc> aspect is being regarded as a Parana by my family because I am an atheist. We're talking about folks who have a deep-rooted discontent with members of other churches! Catholicism - fogetaboutit!    I've learned to cope by setting boundaries and adhering to them.      1. Going to church with Mrs. MOHO but NOT going into the sanctuary. (This will likely change soon due to my hyperactive       GAG REFLEX!)        2. NOT even responding to requests to attend other church functions. ("Don't eve ASK!" is what I am truly saying)      3. NOT responding to the typical "Don't you just FEEL the lord!?" "Will you pray over dinner?" "Don't you understand that this country is suffering because it is turning away from the lord?!"     4. Pursuing friends outside of xiantity and motivating Mrs. MOHO to do the same.     5. Responding with clear, concise, documented and provable (mostly) evidence that xianity is B.S. - (big help here from Ehrman, Dawkins, Hitchens et. al) when they ask why I have made this decision. Sometimes they actually listen.   Hope this helps and keep reading and visiting.     - MOHO (Mind Of His Own)    
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